the situation is i love him so much...he never does anything wrong ...jus he is a lil spoiled and is always askin me to buy him things...but like i said we split up 2x b4 and this our 3rd time dating....i was doin so well like no fuckn nobody else...but i messed up...why i dont kno i sorta got caught up but stop the guy for he could finish and then i broke down to tears realizin wat a horrible person i am...but pls...i seriously dont kno why i cheat...like i jus let somethings happen but now its like i dont want to be the person i used to be i want to change....could any1 give me some advice on wat to do...to make me a better person???
2006-08-02 16:53:12 · 8 answers · asked by a sista in need 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have no idea how much you have advanced already by admitting you have a problem and wanting to solve it.
First, you need to stop avoiding all the situations that end up leading you to have sex with other guys. You have to think what is it in your life that always takes you there.
As for why exactly you do it... seems to me like something you should work with a therapist.
One more thing: Even if you keep falling... DO NOT GIVE UP.
Good luck sista'!!
2006-08-02 17:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by Hor-heh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did no longer cheat yet he did lie. He agreed from the very beginning up that he does not do this and he did it besides then lied on your face. I dont think of he's truly sorry the only ingredient he's sorry for is getting caught. Now i does not be mad IF it wasn't agreed upon till now that's became a no no and if he could have instructed me he became going till now he went. yet what your boyfriend did that's unacceptable and you have each and every precise to be offended and disenchanted i could be. it is going to be very hard so you might have faith him. i comprehend how hard which could be I even have have faith matters with adult males through previous relationships. you may desire to contemplate whether you may truly have faith him back and forgive him. specific you ought to beable to forgive yet you will on no account overlook. in case you haven't any longer been mutually very long then possibly its no longer even nicely worth attempting to get previous
2016-10-01 10:11:31 · answer #2 · answered by kelcey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you could do... you could STOP BEING A F U C KING SLORE!!!! Stop cheating and stop f u c king other guys. if you get horny and want your brains f u c ked out through your a s shole then go f u ck your boyfriend and not some random guy you find begging for quarters on the subway platform. i mean really.
2006-08-02 17:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by link7506 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well are you the one who have broken up with him or has he been breaking up with you? and why have you 2 broken up or have been on and off. well instead of cheating. like you dont want to then think about him before anythign happens with that other guy. and think about if he found out how bad that would hurt him and you both? you just have to think before you act in order to change yourself. be who you wanna be and do what you wanna do that you know is right.
2006-08-02 17:01:06 · answer #4 · answered by curlie-ba-twirlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...i seriously dont kno why i cheat... Figure it out. Don' t be with anyone until you do.
2006-08-02 16:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by jinxed_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop. if you love this guy quit f u c kin around with other guys
2006-08-02 16:59:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need not to be in a relationship
2006-08-02 17:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by rachiecakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where can we meet?
2006-08-02 17:04:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋