I've heard that the very beautiful girls never get asked out; believedly because the guys assume they don't have a chance or something?
Is this really true? Do the very beautiful girls not get asked out? Or is it an urban myth?
If that is true, would a very beautiful girl who never gets asked out then go out with most anyone who asked her?
I hold back from talking to girls who I think are really pretty for that reason, that I don't think I have a chance. Do I really?
2006-08-02 16:50:44 · 11 answers · asked by John C 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My entire life random people have told me how pretty I am. Guys stare at me non stop,little boys to old men. I never get asked out.
Its not a myth. When the boy who's confident in himself comes to you, you'll know he's something special.
2006-08-03 05:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by Tokyo 2 · 6⤊ 1⤋
it's true. really beautiful girls don't really get asked out. i think there might be two reasons. one, guys are shy and automatically assume beautiful girls are not avaliable for whatever reasons guys can think of. two, many beautiful girls get stared at all the time, some of them even have stalkers. guys usually either don't want to deal with the pressure of their girlfriends might be in danger, or some guys just know that they might not be strong enough to protect their beautiful girlfriends.
I was told that I was beautiful, although I really don't think so. I have stalkers, crazy guys who want to grab my arms all the time, and I have people flash me. I have been getting those crazy people since I was 15, and I have learned to protect myself. I know guys usually back off and not ask me out after they see me fighting off my stalkers. they probably think that i will beat them up too if we really get together. well, it's sad but a girl has to do what she needs to do, right?
2006-08-03 04:09:29 · answer #2 · answered by musi 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Most guys don't approach a "pretty" girl, because they think they are already taken.. When I see a gorgeous guy, I say in the back of my mind.."I bet he has a girlfriend.." But, Don't be shy, I'm sure a lot of guys have a chance.. Just be a getlemen, you know, impress her with your charm.. That usaully breaks the ice.
Hope this helps..
2006-08-02 16:59:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm not exactly a super model, but all my guy friends cannot figure out why I don't have a serious boyfriend or even married. Guys make comments toward me all the time, but I don't get asked out.
You never know unless you try. Only the bitches will turn you down.
2006-08-02 16:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by Sharp Marble 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
guys just want trash really most just want sex..and not all girls are willing to give it away like that...but i think every guy has a chance as long as you approach and are honest and yourself...you might have a chance...i say go for it!
2006-08-02 16:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by oh baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is true, it takes a strong guy to approach a "pretty" type. They are intimidated, they figure you will say no, or if they get you you will cheat, cause very guy wants you...Guys need to step up to the plate and give it the old fashion try...
2006-08-02 17:01:02 · answer #6 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dunno but i get hit on alot lotsa pple girls and guys alike have told me im very cute or sexy or wtvr along those lines got soo bad one day my bro had to chase a guy wth a baseball bat bec the guy wouldnt leave me alone. i think it depends on the sitch.oops ... i didnt realize a guy was asking. and for the most part ,girls dont like being talked to like trash so dont try that on any girl. now count to ten and go up to her the worst that can happen is she says no. good luck and be respectful.
2006-08-02 16:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by blueducky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i only get approached by the wrong type of guy, so i say no to most. if the right type happened to ask me out, then of course i would say yes.
2006-08-02 17:00:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up to her and start a conversation then ask for her name in the middle of the conversation and ask for her number at the end. Compliment her, make her laugh/smile girls love that. be yourself. If you are struggling with self esteem issues then start off with flirting with less attractive girl and work your way up.
2016-03-16 12:51:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok not stuck up but plenty of guys have asked me out but i turn them all down not couse they dont have a chance wiht me couse im scared my mom is now remarried for the 3rd time and my past fathers have been abusive so i dont trust men so grls do ask pretty grls out and grls dont turn them down for the reson of being to good for them
2006-08-02 16:56:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋