im dating and my boyfriend says i need 2 b more open but i dont knowhow....HELP?
2006-08-02 16:30:52 · 3 answers · asked by Assiyah R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know what... I've always been the SHY girl, always kept to myself. But when I met my boyfriend he just gets it all outta me. Lol. All you got to do is open up. If you have a friend who you tell everything to, and can do anything with and feel comfortable... just think of that friend as (in ur other friends you can't open up with)ur other friends and that can definately help. Other than that just TRY to get it outta your mind. Maybe you think they'll make fun of you? If they do then forget them, cuz that's just not a true friend. As a matter of fact my BF never thought I'd make the first move, but it's jsut his umm... whats the word?... his personality/presence? that makes me feel comfortable and so I went with it... and thought I did wrong, but it was shocking to him that I went in for the kiss, went in for the first sexual move... and so on... and with it shocking him it gave me more courage to be open, but I also knew i liked it. I loved showing him the REAL me... and so now i'm alot more open, and not as shy. I still have a shy side but oh well day by day it gets better. IM me if you wanna chat more : sweetsuezq4u (Yahoo Messenger)
2006-08-05 18:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by sweetsuezq4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really shy to but when I'm with my boyfriend I just kick back and relax. You just have to just relax and be yourself. Don't be afraid to say whats on your mind.
2006-08-02 16:36:46 · answer #2 · answered by frankiegirl1122 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take public speaking....? might help overcome uer shyness.
2006-08-02 16:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by blueducky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋