this is what my friend's now ex said to her to break up with her:i have been been so busy with work and all and i don't have time to hang out and be with you and have a girlfriend...just any girl in general.
we both found that really lame.
i mean my boyfriend's in the army and he has an excuse to not see me and i know that. he's serving his country.
but any suggestions of what he really ment?
2006-08-02 16:18:27 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It really is a lame break up. They are just too scared to tell them why they do not want to continue the relationship for fear they might go off the deep end on them.
Both guys and girls do this. This isn't gender related. My favorite break up line in the whole wide world is, "You're too nice" LOL
As far as work getting in the way of persuing a relationship. I would quit my job and find something else before I deprive myself of personal happiness. If I am that dedicated to work, it is because I own it.
If it isn't happing for you anymore, just tell them. But do it in a respectful way like, "This isn't happening for us anymore" or the like.
2006-08-02 16:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by davester1970 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
He could really be telling the truth but personally I think he was just trying to find anything to say so they could break up.Your friend should be thankful because he could have just quit calling and she would still be wondering what happened.Tell your friend regardless of whether he was being truthful,life goes on.
2006-08-02 23:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That he is not ready for what she wants... commitment. He is committed to his goals or still wants to do things he has not done yet or he is just no as interested and wants to move on. Sorry, it happens. Then again we don't know the person either.
2006-08-02 23:27:21 · answer #3 · answered by jinxed_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lame excuse which could possibly mean: "You are not interesting for me anymore... I don't like you and I want to cut any ties we have before... It's kapish and the end!" That's simply it...
2006-08-02 23:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by Lei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soory to say it but i think its kinda obvious...he either just doesnt want a girlfriend or he just plain out doesnt like her
2006-08-02 23:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means im to lazy to be readin all this so im just gonna take an educative guess and say NO? lol
2006-08-02 23:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he said what is said because he didn't have the balls to say that he doesn't want to see or go with her anymore.
2006-08-02 23:25:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋