I do trust my bf I believe he would never cheat on me he can not stand cheaters just like me.
2006-08-02 16:15:05 · 42 answers · asked by Emily24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I do. If I did not trust a person I could not be with them. Trust is earned.
2006-08-02 16:17:38 · answer #1 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a very hard emotion to have especially if you've ever been deceived. One thing men, and women need to understand is that you should never put anyone on a pedestal. It's even more so when you are not married to that person. In the past I have been hurt, lied to, disrespected, and surprised because of the men I chose to care for. I thought I would never find an honest or respectful man to share my life with. I finally found him, and he turned out to be a real man. Some men have no idea what it takes to build a relationship or women either. I was always expecting the other shoe to drop because this is what I was use to. It never happened. I have been with my husband now for thirteen years, and he is the same today as he was the day I met him. A man who thinks about my feelings, and loves me uncondtionally. Sometimes I wondered where he came from. I had no idea their were any descent hard working non judgemental men left in this world. I love him with all my heart but I also have to be aware that to put everything I own on the chopping block by totally trusting any mortal might come back to haunt me. My husband has never given me any reason to doubt his sincerity to our marriage but you learn as you grow in life that their is always room for error. God is the being I think I would give my all to because He never fails. Remember to always keep your eyes open for any possibility, and then the hurt won't be as bad.
2006-08-02 16:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I trust my BF but anything can happened. I choose to live for trust in any relationships now in days. Due to the fact if you have and a little doubt you start change to this crazy person always living on the edge and act like you some great detective, looking for the evidence. Living life like that was not cool at all. I been with my BF for over 10 years and learned from an older lady "everything that happened in the dark come out to light" So, I started to live in trust and I am loving it.
2006-08-02 16:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by JO`NAE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This 'trust' looks like more of a personal quality rather than the trust-worthiness of the other person , is it not ?
We say, "he/she does not ever trust anyone in his life !"
or " Oh, he is an innocent fool, he would blindly trust anyone, and any number of times" !
Is it that such polarised people try to make it appear that the definition of trust is mis-quoted ?
Now the other way, when you say, you trust someone , is not a conditional trust.... almost like setting a benchmark, TILL I SAY NOT OKAY, I TRUST YOU (irrespective of the truth being something else !) Are we ending up , trying to restrict the word to some action like "till you cheat me" or so ?
2006-08-02 17:07:46 · answer #4 · answered by Spiritualseeker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....just because someone hates a cheaters doesn't mean they will never cheat. Mine came from a family that was divorced and he hated it also but the day came that he cheated. Not with him anymore.
I trust people but I know things can always change and very suddenly
2006-08-02 16:19:35 · answer #5 · answered by Eerin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first girlfriend cheated on me and lied about it. My last girlfriend was faithful, but there were other things she was not honest with me about. My girlfriend now has always been 100% honest with me about everything. Even things that I didn't think she'd be honest about. So, my answer is 'yes'. I trust my girlfriend completely. Which is unusual because there are few people who are completely honest. I rarely trust anyone completely, but she's never given me any reason to think that she's anything but on the level.
2006-08-02 16:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by aghostprofilebeingempty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do. You have to! Confidence is the basis of any relationship! If you have any doubts about your gf, wife, etc. it's because you don't trust her and that is already a bad sign. You need trust for a relationship to work.
2006-08-02 16:19:47 · answer #7 · answered by germ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to trust so one no matter how good of a person they are, or how much they say they hate cheaters, there only human. But i believe if you truly care or love someone, then you need to trust them.
2006-08-02 16:19:23 · answer #8 · answered by MyDreams2Be 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to trust my boyfriend but sometimes he just says some stupid comments that vmake me doubt him. I am a really jealous person but truly i dont think he would flat out cheat on me but some of the comments he makes makes me wonder sometimes...got any tips for me???
Thats great that you are able to trust him like that i wish i could be that strong!!!
2006-08-02 16:32:39 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to ask a question like that? If there is no trust in a relationship, that relationship is not going to work. If there are doubts, they should be talked about and gotten over. Don't look for problems where there aren't any.
2006-08-02 16:19:39 · answer #10 · answered by sugarsweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋