okay i have a bf!!!we have been going our for like 5 mouths!!and we have only talked on the phone like 3times!!!!he has never called me those times i did and the reson y i didnt call him so much cuz i wanted him to call me and i wrote him notes tat say call me!!!but he hasnt it!! i dont know if i should broke up with him(but i think i should) but the other probaly iis tat i cant broke up with him like this week cuazx it waz hes brithday like a week ago and i sent him a present!!!(a pic of me in a pic frame) and he saw my bro at the pool last sunday and told him tat he likes the pic or me tat i gave him!!! so wut should i don!!!!(srry tat its long)
2006-08-02 16:11:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first-learn to spell.
second-just becuz a guy hasn't called you doesn't mean you break up with him! their must've been a reason, ok? and if you wait for the other person to pick up the phone, who knows, mabey he was doing the same? if you want to talk to him, YOU make the move, if he likes the frame and pic and everything, then why would he not care about or like you? mabey you to need to hang out more, the second best thing in a relationship is communication. (the first i believe is honesty/trust)
third-i suggest, just communicate with him more, and then decide if you want him or not.
2006-08-02 16:18:14 · answer #1 · answered by HELP! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alright hun well you obvioulsy love this guy and he obviously loves you or he wouldn't be in this relationship with you!! Now from past experience I can definatley say don't brake it off with him because you'll crush his heart!! He's obviously shy and doesn't want to look like an idiot in front off you!!! All you have to do is talk to him or make the first move!! If he's to shy then help him out and make the first move!! Over time he will be more comfortable around you and you'll spend time with each other maybe twenty four seven!! If you feel like you need to break it off with him then go ahead but just remember Shy guys need a break too!! Give him a shot!! And if it still doesn't work maybe you should talk to him and figure it out!! Not talking could only cause more problems!! If you talk he'll listen and give you the answers you need!! Trust me if he wanted to break it off he would've already!! Good Luck in your relationship!!!!
2006-08-02 16:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by LiveLifeTheWayYouWish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, use the spell checker. It helps to be able to read what you are asking.
Second, why would you want to break up with him because he doesn't call you? Guys don't normally call someone to just talk. It isn't in our nature. Call him, and keep pressing the subject. Either eventually he will get the point or, well I suppose you will have to talk in person!
2006-08-02 16:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by Justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl let me tell you something, If the guy is really into you he would be banggin at you door telling you that he can't live with out you . If he is not, which he obviously isn't, then don't even waste your time with him, move on, don't even call him... I beat he wont even call to see what's up, and if he does is all for the body, and you don't want to be that girl now, do you?
2006-08-02 16:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by jayden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First for God's sake use spell check-you know the abc button??? Sounds like all the contact is started by you. Do you ever even do anything together like a move,coffee sex??? Doesn't sound like there's anything to breakup. Stop calling him and that will solve the problem.
2006-08-02 16:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by whnp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you have been going out with him for five months but you've only talked on the phone three times and you called him! He doesn't care about you at all. Find a boy who deserves you and lose this loser.
2006-08-02 16:17:35 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i had the same exact deal with my bf!! well i fyou love him enuff [or like whatever] that wouldnt bother you so much maybe he just doesnt like to talk on the phone... that was the cas ein my situation... but then about 2 months later he broke up with me because he said i was a ***** which im not but yeah anywayz.... i know you really want him to call you but you should try calling him beacuse maybe hes just a little shy.... maybe hes scared to or something....
well i hope i helped in any way!
2006-08-02 16:17:22 · answer #7 · answered by KJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should talk to him about it and how you feel that he doesn't care enough to call. Perhaps he's just phone shy or something? Find out why from him before anything else happens.
2006-08-02 16:17:06 · answer #8 · answered by Christine H. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 months and only 3 phone conversations.It doesn't sound much different than being friends.I would say don't call him anymore.If he wants to talk let him call.Give it a little time and if he doesn't call,breakup with him and move on.
2006-08-02 17:02:35 · answer #9 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably likes you alot but is really shy. If you like him alot give him some time if not break up with him and find a guy with some balls!
2006-08-02 16:26:16 · answer #10 · answered by Dave S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋