y do ppl get crazy about money?

Question

HOW DO I GET MY BF TO SEE THAT MONEY IS GOOD TO HAVE BUT IT IS REALLY CAUSING A PROBLEM? I ON THE OTHER HAND DONT HAVE A JOB BUT YET GAVE HIM 130 TO HELP HIM PAY FOR SUMMER SCHOOL ABOUT 2 WEEKS AGO..HE JUST GOT PAID ABOUT 3 DAYS AGO AND HE IS BROKE...HE BROUGHT HIS NIECE THE NEWEST JORDANS THAT CAME OUT AND HE PUTS ALL HIS MONEY IN HIS CAR NOW HE CALLIN ME ASKING ME FOR GAS MONEY TO GET TO WORK....SO WHAT DO I DO?

Answer 1

well plan a budget make sure he doesnt spend this amount of money each week. It worked for my uncle. He always blew his money but my aunt made this list thing of how much money to spend a week. Sound childish for my uncle.....it says money! cha ching!

Answer 2

1. Not too bad, I'm a little sick though. 2. Tomorrow I'm hoping for a snow day. Otherwise I'll go to school and try to survive a wednesday. 3. My favorite color used to be light blue, but I think it's changed to green 4. Favorite singer? Hmmm. Not sure. Hayley Williams? 5. Fav hobby is photography. Second to that is writing (poetry, short stories, etc) 6. Fav tv show is Supernatural and House MD :) 7. I think I've been called a nerd before... but only because people often say I'm smart -_-;. 8. I haven't come out with my bisexuality yet, I'm so scared to! I know some homophobes, which worries me 9. Craziest thing is probably bungee jumping at six flags lol. Nah, that's not really crazy... I can't think of any off the top of my head :P Probably run around with my best friend in public acting like a freak. Oh yeah, we ran down the street holding on to each other pretending we were drunk lmao 10. When people say "That's so gay!" and they mean it as stupid. >:( 11. Thank you ^^ <3

Answer 3

First of all, DO NOT give him anymore money! He needs to learn how to put himself on a budget and it is nice that he got his niece some new jordans. He needs to learn how to take care of himself financially. If he asks you for some more money, tell him no. He needs to keep in mind that you don't have a job yet and you can't keep coming to rescue everytime he needs it. You also have to ask him for your money back. If all doesn't go well, then you will know that he doesn't know how to budget his money in order to take care of himself. Good luck.

Answer 4

Since he got his niece shoes give him 10 bucks for gas. Then in a few weeks tell him you need some money to pay a bill and see if he gives you the money. there will be your answer

Answer 5

1. Stop typing in all caps
2. Dump him
3. Grow up
4. Find another dude that isn't a bum.
5. Have 2-4 kids and be broke as hell.
6. Wish you had more money.

Answer 6

First of all, tell him NO.
Then you do not lend him money under any circumstances. You are not responsible for him. He has to learn to take care of himself and if you haven't asked him why he hasn't paid you back, he will think you are letting him keep the money. I bet he will say he had to fix his car and had no money left over for you. He will come up with a reason he bought the jeans.

Answer 7

Don't give him any money. This will become a habit. He needs to learn to prioritize and budget his money. He won't do that if you keep bailing him out. Sorry, that is the cold hard truth.

Answer 8

Tell him that you'd love to help him out but you don;t have a job, so you don't have any money. Tell him that it's nice he bought a gift for his neice, but he needs to learn how to spend his money wisely.

Answer 9

He has no budgeting ability. This is a common problem that most likely will get no better. Cut your losses and move on with your life.

Answer 10

Because women loves money