ok so i really liked this guy for a long time and he never really liked me anymore then as a friend so i decideed to go out with other guys for a bit and i think he is getting a bit jelouse of it but i found out that i dont realy like him vrey much i like on eof the other guys that i am dating lately and i feel bad cuz i told him i would always be waiting but i think he loves me now?? was that mean and wat should i do??
2006-08-02 15:53:54 · 24 answers · asked by pigeontri 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well u seem to have a bit of a problem you promised to stay waiting but u gave up cause u figured waiting would never end so u went out with a guy and know ur waiter is wanting you for either true love or jelousely but u seem to like one alot more than the other so...go with the guy that u seem is better but if its the on u waited on check for sure to know he isnt gunna pick u up then drop u in a heartbeat and if he is just there to screw ur life leave him alone and wait for some one that truly likes u to come along just live life for know you only have so long to live
2006-08-02 16:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by steph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first question I would have to ask is how old are you? If you are still young I would say go enjoy hanging out with other guys. I'm a guy and when I was younger I never really knew what I wanted in a girl. When I found it was to late. She already moved on. Kinda like waht you have done. That's how we live and learn. There is no book that I have seen or read that tells you the exact ways on how to make a relationship work. Sometimes you just have to do what is in your heart and see where it takes you.
2006-08-02 23:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by Chris_Fritsche 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk bout a dilenma.Both parties got major issues. Make up ur mind. Either go 4 ur friend since u promised 2 wait-or tell him 2 take a hike.What dat means is dat u need 2 wake up & smell the coffee.
2006-08-02 23:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has the choice not to be with you when you really wanted him.
Just tell him that you had waited so long that things change.
Here is what you say, "When I first saw you, I did anything to be your girl, but as time went on, I just now realize it wasn't meant to be. I'm sorry." Then you leave immediately after.
2006-08-02 23:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until he asks you to go out with him.. I wouldnt worry about it one bit. He realistically couldnt think that you would honestly wait for him forever without having some type of dating/relationship. If he does approach you and you are dating someone else or have lost that feeling of liking him.. then just say.. no thanks. And No.. its not mean. You need to live your life for YOU and nobody else.
2006-08-02 23:01:04 · answer #5 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is unreasonable for someone to expect you to wait around until they are interested in you. he is probably getting jealous becasue he has realised what he is missing out on. don't dump the guy you like becasue you think some guy loves you unless you feel the same way. you should be with the guy you like. unfortunately, as you have yourself experienced, sometimes people have feelings for someone who doesn't return them. this guy is just going to have to get over it. stay with the guy you like that you are dating.
2006-08-02 23:06:29 · answer #6 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep yourself happy 1st of all.its not mean he is jelous once u get w/ him it wont work,trust me on this 1 i have had 2 girls that asked me but i said no then when i saw them w/ someone else i got jelous and asked her out so 4 days later i was like this girl is ugly i dont like her ,thats what will happen .if things arent broken dont fix it,enjoy u .good luck hope it works out 4 u.
2006-08-02 23:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by Compton,CA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have a right to change your mind.
I like a guy but he never liked me enough to date me but when I dated other guys he would be jealous so i then would break up with whomever i was dating and then he wouldn't go out with me so I learned from those mistakes that he was only trying to control me and would never be more then a friend.
2006-08-02 22:59:17 · answer #8 · answered by cutiepie81289 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had his chance. He only liked you as a friend. Too bad for him. It's not your fault. Go out with the boy you like now.
2006-08-02 22:59:03 · answer #9 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say to him i waited for u but u never came so i moved on. i am a guy and that is the way i would like a girl to tell me. he had his chance but it is time to move on.
2006-08-02 22:59:17 · answer #10 · answered by mikey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋