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ok...
i really liked this guy lets call him guy 1...he liked me back...my best friend lets call her friend 1, likes him alot..even though i like him and she knows it she asked him out...well me and guy 1 chatted bout it...he said he loved me no matter what..well come to find out they had been dating all along behind my back...i told him i knew...he was shocked...i mean duh i was going to find out anyway...
well im trying to be happy from friend 1 but im really upset bout it...
how can i get hi out of my head...
this guy lets name him guy 2 wants to go with me...i say no and he said he going to kill himself...
so my questions are: how can i get guy 1 outof my head and be happy for friend 1, and how can i get guy 2 not to not like me and stop saying he is going to commit sucide...
thanks
and if u really want to know im over 15...

2006-08-02 15:48:24 · 2 answers · asked by * 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

guy 1 really treated me well..when i talked to him i felt im love...
then he really brought me down...

2006-08-02 16:00:33 · update #1

2 answers

to get guy 1 out of your head..just think about how he treated you and mislead you, and remember that there is a better guy out there for you.
To be happy for friend 1, even though she went out with they guy that you liked...remember that SHE is stuck with the liar...
and for guy 2- he clearly has some issues. you should tell someone about him (some type of psyco doctor))

2006-08-02 15:55:39 · answer #1 · answered by alohabola2 2 · 1 0

This could be simply manipulation but you cannot know for sure. However, you cannot control the actions of another. If you think he is serious and feel he might be about to take his life, you can contact 911 and they can check on his welfare, perhaps get him some mental health care. But you can always give him the number of a crisis line to call. You are not responsible for what he does but you can offer him support.

AG, Counselor

2015-08-17 16:28:44 · answer #2 · answered by boystownhotline 7 · 0 0

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