2006-08-02 15:45:33 · 24 answers · asked by libby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
With you, Darling, I believe in Both!!
No ... really:
Lust??
Obviously...
Love?
Well, that has to be developed.
You're now talking 'Heart stuff' ... may not connect as much with physical appearance.
Some poorly-looking fellows marry the Best looking girls you dun-ever-did-saw!!!
And they are both very happy.
But when they met, I don't know that she would have seen him as a Love-at-first-sight prospect.
You develop love for ‘the person’.
So, therefore, first you have to get to know the person before love can develop ...
Love comes by sacrifice for that person or the thing that you love.
The main thing we sacrifice for a person while we get to know that person is TIME.
So, in terms of time, love at first sight is an Impossibility.
Yet we can learn many things very quickly about a person just by looking into their eyes and faces, because in them is an eternity of who they are.
It is often expressed that the eyes are the mirror of the soul.
One can really fathom a lot about a person through their eyes.
There will be things we like in there, almost instantly.
But love is built on sacrifice for someone, and that takes time.
2006-08-02 19:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by dr c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust and lust only and first sight. But I believe that lust can turn into LOVE.
2006-08-02 22:52:14 · answer #2 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they both exist but that lust at first sight is about 100 times more common. I also think love at first sight is more common for men because they fall in love with their eyes.
2006-08-02 22:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by art_tchr_phx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in Lust at first sight
because on sight you really dont know if the woman you are looking at is Mrs Blah Blah, or an axe murderor
2006-08-03 17:24:54 · answer #4 · answered by Xae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a deeper connection, it's commitment, sacrifice, trust, so how could you possibly have those feelings for someone you just saw? But lust at first sight? Hell yeah!
2006-08-02 22:52:57 · answer #5 · answered by Tzipor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lust, love at first sight is only in the movies.
2006-08-02 22:54:20 · answer #6 · answered by juju 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust at first sight most probably (citing you as an example)
Love at first sight....nah never happened.
2006-08-03 22:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that love at first sight still exist.
2006-08-02 22:49:23 · answer #8 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe in love at first sight, i aslo believe in lust
2006-08-02 22:51:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe in love at first sight bigtime.it happens to me every day
2006-08-02 22:52:37 · answer #10 · answered by Gen-Gen,the Sky Guardian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋