The kid gets away with everything, and I feel like his dad takes out all his "parental" frustration on me because he can't bring himself to punish his son.
2006-08-02 15:44:26 · 13 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
What you're missing is you should end it. Or at least discuss it with him and see if he can turn things around.
2006-08-02 15:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by a41xblj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to modern reality. If you think you have problems now, imagine how this will be when the kid is an adult and daddy has a kid who is out of control and can push his dad around
I have been dating a guy for 4 years who has 5 kids and the 3 oldest ages 30, 28 and 26 use their dad so bad. It is all I can take to see it happening.
What you do is get out of this relationship now. You will end up taking the blame for everything while this kid is allowed to treat you like **** and run your lives.
Run, dont stop and dont look back.
Your not missing a thing, and he will be missing you when you get fed up with it.
2006-08-02 15:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aren't any further incorrect for feeling the way you do yet there is no longer something you may do. If dad gained't take the lead you'll only be the sons joke. you are able to't self-discipline him. do not attempt. you may want to reassess being with this guy because he will be held captive by ability of his man or woman son continuously. Bailing him out, letting him stay there even as he's released from detention center, hiring attorneys. it truly is a contact of issues to go back. both dad places his foot down or you do and go away.
2016-11-27 22:05:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is misdirecting his feelings of inadaquacy. I'm betting he wants to be the "good" parent who is a friend to the child and that is costing your relationship. Tell him to figure out what he's doing and how to deal with it or move on because it can only get worse.
2006-08-02 15:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by Lex 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has better instincts about kids than women. The way he treats his son is up to him. The way he treats you is up to both of you. If you do figure out how to be happy with each other, then you have to figure out how to be happy with his kid. Good luck!
2006-08-02 15:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get some therapy, this is not healthy for you at all and it will only magnify as the child gets older and more out of control. Just ask yourself "Is this the kind of environment you want your own children growing up in someday?' Get it resolved now. good luck
2006-08-02 15:51:04 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel like if your finance know how disrespectful his kid is and he won't discipline him then maybe you should leave him. Any dude who's in the wrong and he knows it and still doesn't do anything, then I feel you should fine somebody better!
2006-08-02 16:17:13 · answer #7 · answered by fizzmemethomas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you need to question whether or not you want to marry this man and live with him for the rest of your life. It is highly unlikely that he will change his parenting style.
2006-08-02 15:50:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you need a long talk with your fiance.
If you can't deal with the way he raises HIS child then it's time to leave.
2006-08-02 15:48:07 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run far, run fast. If I had listened when they told me that, me and my kids would be a lot better off now.
2006-08-02 15:49:01 · answer #10 · answered by ginarene71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋