ok so there is this guy and i have liked hime for 2 years but he doesnt like me at all!!!! wat can i do or say to change that!? i have told himthat i have tried to stop likeing him but i cant an i am sry and he just huged me ans said it ok!! want can i say to him!!!???
2006-08-02 15:38:57 · 6 answers · asked by pigeontri 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was in the same exact situation..only I let it go on for a little longer than two years. (more like three) But anyways. There really is nothing you can say or do to change this guy's mind. His opinion of you is already set in stone. He won't change his view point of you no matter what you say. You've just got a really good friend now. I'm sorry to tell you this..but I'd hate to see you wasting your time. All your gonna get from this guy is a simple hello and a casual hug. That is, unless he finally grows up and that can take FOREVER. You should move on and if it was really meant to be, he'll come searching for you. .
And if somehow you do change his mind, plz tell me the secret!!
2006-08-02 15:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do or say to make a guy like you. I think you have probably embarrassed yourself enough already. Stay away from him and find another boy to go out with. You'll soon forget him.
2006-08-02 22:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing.. Best think you can do is try harder to get on with you life. You are just hurting yourself by hanging on to the thoughts of you and him getting together. Find you another boy and before long .. it will be a distant memory. Good Luck.
2006-08-02 22:44:48 · answer #3 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T say that you've "tried to stop liking him". That makes you sound helpless and most guys want someone who can fend for themselves despite everything.
DO start being just friends with him. If he can see your good friend side instead of your "flirtatious, I want him to like me" side, he start to realize what a great person you are. Plus once your good friends with him, (it's very possible) that he might wind up being someone you don't want to date.
GOOD LUCK.
2006-08-02 22:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is someone out there who will feel the SAME WAY about you as you feel about him. Go looking for that person, you have wasted too much time on this guy already!!
2006-08-02 22:44:22 · answer #5 · answered by Cutie_Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just try to date other people, I'm not saying to try and quit liking him because, if it's really love that will be impossible. Maybe just go on dates with other guys and maybe he will realize he doesn't want you to be with anyone else.
2006-08-02 22:44:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋