What do women want? Seriously Im soo confused?

Question

Someone just explain to what it is that women want in a relationship. Also, what makes them mad and why doesnt it bother men.

Answer 1

hey i know this is really long, but read it.. it might give your some insight.

10 Things Men Know About Women:
1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9.
And of course.......10.

In the world of romance, one single rule applies:
Make the woman happy.
Do something she likes and you get points.
Do something she dislikes and points are subtracted.
You don't get any points for doing something she expects. Sorry,that's the way the game is played.
Here is a guide to the point system:
Simple Duties:
You make the bed (+1)
You make the bed, but forget to add the decorative pillows (0)
You throw the bedspread over rumpled sheets (-1)
You leave the toilet seat up (-5)
You replace the toilet paper roll when it is empty (0)
When the toilet paper roll is barren, you resort to Kleenex (-1)
When the Kleenex runs out you use the next bathroom (-2)
You go out to buy her extra-light panty liners with wings (+5)
In the snow (+8)
But return with video games (-5)
You check out a suspicious noise at night (0)
You check out a suspicious noise and it is nothing (0)
You check out a suspicious noise and it is something (+5)
You pummel it with a six iron (+10)
It's her pet (-10)
Social Engagements:
Party:
You stay by her side the entire party (0)
You stay by her side for a while, then leave to chat with college
drinking buddy (-2)
Named Tiffany (-4)
Tiffany is a dancer (-6)
Tiffany has implants (-8)
Her Birthday:
You take her out to dinner (0)
You take her out to dinner and it's not a sports bar (+1)
Okay, it is a sports bar (-2)
And it's all-you-can-eat night (-3)
It's a sports bar, it's all-you-can-eat night, and your face is
painted in all of the colors of your favorite sports team (-10)
A Night Out With the Boys:
Go with a pal (-5)
The pal is happily married (-4)
Or frighteningly single (-7)
And he drives a Sports car (-10)
A Night Out:
You get her a movie (+2)
You get her a movie she likes (+4)
You get her a movie you hate (+6)
You get her a movie you like (-2)
It's called DeathCop 9 (-3)
Which features cyborgs that eat humans (-9)
You lied and said it was a foreign film about orphans (-15)
Your Physique:
You develop a noticeable potbelly (-15)
You develop a noticeable potbelly and exercise to get rid of it
(+10)
You develop a noticeable potbelly and resort to loose jeans and
baggy Hawaiian shirts (-30)
You say, "It doesn't matter, you have one too." (-800)
The Big Question:
She asks, "Do I look fat?"
You hesitate in responding (-10)
You reply, "Where?" (-35)
Any other response (-20)
** Here there is no correct answers
Communication:
When she wants to talk about a problem:
You listen, displaying what looks like a concerned expression (0)
You listen, for over 30 minutes (+5)
You listen for more than 30 minutes without looking the TV (+100)
She realizes this is because you have fallen asleep (-20)

A couple was celebrating their golden wedding anniversary.
Their domestic tranquillity had long been the talk of the town.
A local newspaper reporter was inquiring as to the secret
of their long and happy marriage.
"Well, it dates back to our honeymoon," explained the man.
"We visited the Grand Canyon and took a trip down to the bottom
on the canyon by pack mule.
We hadn't gone too far when my wife's mule stumbled.
My wife quietly said, 'That's once.'
We proceeded a little further and the mule stumbled again.
Once more my wife quietly said, 'That twice.'
We hadn't gone a half- mile when the mule stumbled the third time.
My wife quietly removed a revolver from her pocket and shot the mule dead.
I started to protest over her treatment of the mule when she looked at me and quietly said,"That's once."

good luck and God Bless!!

Answer 2

We want EVERYTHING. We want love and understanding, compassion and passion.. We want a guy who will show us off to his friends. A guy who will stand up for us when others are putting us down, a guy who will take care of us when we are sick. We want a best friend, a lover..

What makes us mad is completely different. Cheating, lying, sneaking...are some basics. Flirting with other girls bothers us because we would like to think that we are all you need. Leaving the toilet seat up. Haha j/k. That doesn't really bother me. Most of my b/f's have been really great guys so I can't complain much. Its mostly cheating, lying and sneaking. I cannot say why the things that bother us girls bother men. I am not a guy.

Answer 3

Evene women don't know what they want i think? But seriously, women are very emotional and fragile. So, being in a relationship with them is not hard, its challenging and fun actually. All they want is love, and you guys give love. That's how it is right? Women hate is when you guys hurt them. Being a cheater, facing infedelity, poor attention..all this things that might shake the relationship and ruin it, breaks their heart. And yea, you have to know that they don;t like sharign you with others ( at times your family and friends). Very possessive, I say. Simply because of love and affection.Have a good communication with them. even for petty things. It will make a change and difference. Trust me on that!

Answer 4

Look...men and women can difference and men and women do difference. But provided that they relatively wish to difference for themselves no longer for any individual else. Before you are making a everlasting determination, like divorce, speak to a wedding counselor. More than one truthfully considering all of them have their possess opinion and views on those matters. He most likely did a few foremost harm for your dating and believe, you'll be able to have got to come to a decision if you'll be able to forgive him and believe him once more. The rationale I say men and women can difference is considering my hubby of 10 years did a foremost transformation whilst he aroused from sleep nd smelled the espresso. With guys plenty occasions they don't develop up as quick as we do and they don't become aware of the arena does no longer revolve round them. If your no longer certain approximately divorce, or even though you believe you're, cross speak to a therapist first! Get a well certified, incredibly advocated marriage counselor. I am sorry, I now how a lot this hurts. The deceit and mendacity is as dangerous because the dishonest! I am nonetheless therapy and we're developing in combination as we be trained to percentage and speak brazenly. Communication is the important thing! Good Luck, take time for your determination, and speak, speak, speak!

Answer 5

There are as many answers to that question as women.

It is like asking what should a restaurant serve people. Every patron has their own unique tastes and preferences. Dating is supposed to be fun - You get to dine any place you want and sample the various foods. Discover if you like seafood, Mexican, pork roast, candy..... it is from life experiences you discover you love Pizza, and hate lobster. You must discover this yourself.

Women tend to be more sensitive, more patient, softer and wear their emotions....they do not get any more mad then men. Women do express their feeling more - so if they share the anger - it is natural to verbalize the feelings. This is good. Men hide their emotions - poker faced was a man.

Answer 6

Women have different types but personally, I prefer man who can stand up for what he believes in.. Understanding, a wee bit responsible and know how to make me laugh a lot.. Impossible? Nah.. My BF's that way... Anyways... Most women want males who are the dominant type.. Not too dominant by the way.. Most women want guys who can fight for her and os course, is never afraid to show his feelings towards her.

Answer 7

Women want an alpha male, a dominant man. Confidence. A sense of humor also helps.

Answer 8

Women want an honest, doting, great in bed kinda guy, what makes them mad is when they dont get the above

Answer 9

WE WANT A MAN WHO IS ACCEPTING OF US AND NOT AFRAID OF INTIMACY. WOMEN GET MAD WHEN A MAN WON'T BE IN THE MOMENT WITH US. IT IS VERY VERY IMPORTANT FOR A MAN TO BE COMFORTABLE BEING IN THE MOMENT WITH A WOMAN.

BY "BEING IN THE MOMENT" I MEAN WHEN TIMES ARE SAD, DON'T AVOID GOING THRU THEM WITH US. OR WHEN TIMES ARE GREAT, CELEBRATE THOSE. DON'T RUN OR AVOID THE TIME IT TAKES TO WORK THINGS THRU TOGETHER. THAT'S WHAT MAKES PEOPLE FEEL SAFE AND FREE IN A RELATIONSHIP.

Answer 10

Men are from Mars.....Women from Venus. Read the book and it should explain.....bottom line we are different, just need to try and understand one another.