I like this guy- I think he likes me, but just won't ask me out. So.... what do I do? I won't ask him out cuz I think the guy should ask the girl out. Am I right or wrong? What should I do???
2006-08-02 15:18:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHERE THERE'S A WILL, THERE'S A WAY.. If you don't want to ask him out.. I have the perfect solution :)...
but remember, that women have put up a fight for equality. Now that you have it., I would suggest you simply go use it! :)
MY OPINION: There's no reason why you should not ask him out. Like I always say, tomorrow could possibly never happen. But if it does - as it probably will., will you have regrets if you do nothing and wait? I will guess your answer to that would be a big YES.
Let's say that some other girl asks him out and you just missed out. Would you have posted this question if such a thing happened? Probably not. Ssssoooo... I suggest you go ask him..
AND HERE'S MY SOLUTION TO THIS HUUUUGGE PROBLEM.
THINK OUTSIDED THE BOX! ASK HIM WITHOUT ASKING HIM: If you don't want to ask him.. then just go up to him and say.. You know.. I really think ur cute.. ur really sweet.. and I want to ask you out.. but I guess I'm old fashioned... I think that the guy should ask... sssooooo can you ask me out .. ppppllleeeeeaassee.
Who knows.. maybe twenty years from now... you'll think to yourself when you have a couple children and a wonderful family.. you'll think wow.. what would have happened if I just never said anything.
2006-08-02 15:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by game buddee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are right the guy should ask the girl out but it seems like the guy take to long to do so just wait and he will ask you out soon
2006-08-02 16:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by sexychic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If one of two people is too shy, the other better take the initiative. Otherwise they'll be passing each other in the night like 2 ships.
If someone interested does not ask the other out, it is usually because of the fear of rejection.
Now girls finally get a crack at that.
The decision is always this, what do I hate more, possibly getting rejected, or taking a chance on never getting with someone I like and could have, because the possibility of rejection kept me from asking?
Your call.
If thinking about whether it is 'right' or not because of society keeps you from going for it, you don't deserve getting with him...
Chicken!!! ;-)
2006-08-02 15:21:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the guy should definetly she ask the girl because that would be so weird if the girl ask the guy out
2006-08-02 15:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by Lara M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on a lot of things.... your age, if over say, 16, you can ask him out I think..... some ppl do feel as if a girl asking a guy is just not proper..... well, guys are shy too.... and some just do not have the nerve to ask out a girl.... some guys think that if a girl is just so purty, they will not go out with them..... so I vote, ASK ... God bless
2006-08-02 15:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, enable's overlook approximately each and all of the sexist human beings accessible! this is the twenty-first freaking century. in case you like somebody, tell them. ladies shouldn't would desire to journey backseat to adult males all of our lives merely through fact this is seen "custom". Screw that, lol! I truly have asked out adult males till now, and many times it is going especially plenty. adult males like ladies that take value. in case you i like somebody then I tell them. i think of that's how all ladies would desire to think of. Yeah it feels solid to get asked out, yet enable's settle for it, a million/2 the inhabitants does not have the balls for that. each and every so often the female merely has to get the dating began, then the guy can take over from there.
2016-10-01 10:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, these days, I really don't think it matters. It's more acceptable nowadays for the girl to ask him out too.
2006-08-02 15:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by ~Shelly~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy i was dating at the time was too chicken **** to ask me out and make it official. so i just brought up the subject and when i knew that he was cool with it i was the one who asked him. now we have been together for a year.
2006-08-02 15:24:09 · answer #8 · answered by aimez20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right the guy should ask the girl out no matter what talk to him about it though!!
2006-08-02 15:21:28 · answer #9 · answered by lovely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say the guy should, but t is acceptable! Well i say its more appropriate for a guy. And i am afraid to ask one myself so maybe thats why i feel that way!!!
2006-08-02 15:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋