so i belive this guy was interested in me. he made it obvious, and friends have said. i slept with him several times and mentioned howmuch i love being single and how great it is that were friends that can fool around. he agreed to this. after spending a long time with him recently, i think i might have actual feelings for him. now im afriad he just thinks of me as a girl to sleep with occasionally, which makes sense cause i have been. but does he or could he have actual feelings for me? Do I have a chance or just let it be?
2006-08-02 15:17:46 · 4 answers · asked by summerblue722 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, kind of a risky situation, but most of the relationships that last begin as something other than an actual "date". I say tell him how you feel, you'll never know otherwise, and I may be wrong, but chances are there are other guys that would be happy with a friend with benefits. Lol, Good Luck to you!
2006-08-02 15:26:39 · answer #1 · answered by Brent M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, why don't YOU talk to HIM. I could give you a bogus answer about this and make something up that I know you'll like hearing. But I'll be honest, there's no way for me to know. Just talk to him about it. Admit how you feel even though it will probably be hard. Be confident. Flirt a lot. Prove to him that you are worth a real relationship, because you are. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-08-02 22:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ruin it by getting all emotional. just keep it going. learn to accept it. then you can mention someone asked you out. and see how he reacts. if he gets jealous. then you can ask if he's getting emotionaly attached to you. if so. then you have the upperhand. and you can start to use that to your advantage.
once you have the upperhand you have control over everything.
be careful . unless you can weild the power. it might destroy you.
2006-08-02 22:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the truth...
2006-08-02 22:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋