well the thing is i love my boy friend alot and we have been 2gether 4 a year now but hes still really shy around me and i cant make the first move cause i dont want him 2 get mad at me 4 making the rong move. so when ever im around couples that are comfertoble around each other i hate it cause they are living my life! my fantsy!! my dream!!! please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-02 15:14:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Spend more time in educational places such as the library. In other words, spend more time in places where people are not kissing and such.
In some areas couples do not show their affections publicly.
2006-08-02 15:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by devotionalservice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been with this guy for a year and there's no physical affection? Something is seriously wrong here. It would not be inappropriate to wonder if he's gay, but it could simply be that he regards you more as a friend than a gf. You need to have a serious talk with this guy, and be up front with him about your needs. If he's not willing to meet your needs (or at least meet you halfway), he's not the right guy for you.
2006-08-02 15:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've been with a guy for year and hes uncomfortable to show affection to you publicly????????? hell that aint shy, this guy is getting as much out of you behind closed doors without having to let his mates see publicly. confront him, ask him why he's not publicly proud of you and if he doesnt have a good answer move on and find a man that will meet with your dream, fantasy and the life you want and deserve.
2006-08-02 15:21:40 · answer #3 · answered by Aussieblonde -bundy'd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple and plain jealously dear... As I've told on women who have almost similar problems, they are in a relationship with their current partners and they have to accept them for who they are... Flaws and everything... If you wanted your BF to be more open, tell him... Open small conversations about such topics. One example and sure fire way to tell them how you feel is like this...
When you see couples getting real comfortable, look at them then tug at his shirt and give him puppy eyes. "I'm envious..." Tell that to him in a joking-kind of way. If he gave you the "Whatever" look, sigh then laugh then say "Forget it" then continue on what your doing and remain silent for some time, as if in deep thoughts then start another conversation..
2006-08-02 15:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by Lei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you need to take him somewhere it's not public, and make him feel comfortable making the first move, like look into his eyes for awhile he might get the hint, if not then you can try to make the first move. couples that aren't comfortable with eachother are just not meant to be in my opinion. it's just hard to believe that you and your boyfriend went out for a year and never kissed once. but try to make him feel comfortable. good luck!
2006-08-02 15:23:20 · answer #5 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(1) talk this over with your bf and try to get him comfortable with giving you a little more love
(2) try to give him a hint, reach for his hand, put your arm around him
2006-08-02 15:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by Angel_Anton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL IF HES NOT KISSED YOU IN A YEAR. ARE YOU B/F & G/F OR JUST FRIENDS ? WHEN YOU SEE COUPLES JUST SAY TO HIM WHY DONT YOU TALK TO ME LIKE THAT ? HE SHOULD TAKE THE HINT OR HES NOT REALLY BOTHERED.
2006-08-02 15:22:23 · answer #7 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're not happy with your boyfriend or he's not showing enough PDA, then tell him about it and if he can't change, then leave him if you must. He's not fulfilling one part of your need, so you have to weigh if his fulfillment of the other parts are enough for you...
2006-08-02 15:19:58 · answer #8 · answered by DarthFangNutts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealousy is a curse.... ha ha ha... seriously though, if you have been with someone for a year you should be comfortable around them. Give him the boot & find someone else.
2006-08-02 15:19:30 · answer #9 · answered by Dasher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it. He probably won't get mad. You want to be happy, so don't be shy. (Like your bf, lol)
2006-08-02 15:19:45 · answer #10 · answered by alibababbb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋