Exactly how important IS how a woman looks? I am about 30 lbs. overweight. I have a pretty face and good hair and look good in my jeans. Bathing suit....not so much. lol Are there any guys who look past all that to who a woman really is, or do they all want Barbie Dolls?
2006-08-02 14:55:38 · 9 answers · asked by tammyb752001 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I rather have a woman with some meat on her bones!!! I can`t stand these skinny little bitches who think ther crap doesn`t stink. Don`t worry about your weight that much. What matters is that you be yourself. Everything else will fall in place!!!
2006-08-02 15:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by bren_jim 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Each guy has different tastes in what they consider attractive or not. While there is certainly some truth that most men like more slender women, that is not the only thing they look at.
At least for me, as long as a girl knows how to take care of herself, has a great personality, and knows how to act and dress like a real woman... she'll get tons of bonus points right there.
Lots of the "Barbie Dolls" I've met are either so snobbish or selfish that I want nothing to do with them. They might look good on the outside but their personality is horrible.
So no - I don't think all guys want Barbie Dolls. We do want a beautiful woman in our lives, but each of us has different standards of what is beautiful, and a outgoing friendly personality is worth a lot in itself.
Besides, there's a big difference between 30 lbs. over and 300 lbs. Most women aren't supermodels and niether are guys. It's called REALITY.
What it all comes down to is if your happy with yourself. Because then it shows and guys pick up on that just like girls do.
2006-08-02 22:09:28 · answer #2 · answered by Dark Horizons 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys like curvy women. Plus it depends. Some women, due to their body shape and frame, can hold weight better than others. So your 30 lbs could look better that another woman's 20 lbs.
But even if you don't consider looks, for health reasons a good diet and reasonable exercise program is probably a good thing for everyone, even for those that are genetically skinny.
2006-08-02 22:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by evil_clown_of_destruction 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it is not the most important thing when I look for a girl. To me it is all about personalty and how that person acts. I don't care if they have a few pounds on them it is all about the heart and the brain. if they look good that is just an extra. Sometimes having a few extra pounds is a good thing. I hate stick figured chicks. Usually they don't have curves and to me curves are VERY SEXY.
2006-08-02 22:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen not all people are u gonna find u attractive, as far guys finding u attractive of course there is always gonna be a guy that thinks ur attractive but just maybe not the ones u find attractive, but i can tell u this there is nothing hotter than a girl that takes care of herself and i mean in every aspect.
2006-08-02 22:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't just want Barbie Dolls.
We Want Malibu Barbie Dolls
DUH
2006-08-02 21:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to tell you I prefer decent sized women not to fat not to thin.
However If a Guy likes a chick they might be willing to overlook certain things.
I hope that answers your question
2006-08-02 22:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by ccameronbeaty78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not the outside that matters its the inside personality sense of humor additude ect. personality last 4ever beauty doesnt
2006-08-02 22:07:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont care what u look like in ur jeans
i care wat u look like out of ur jeans
i am not wasting good money on flour
2006-08-02 22:02:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋