I am a big guy and I was wandering why ladies pass us up when looking for a man to date? I mean I got style and I am a down to earth guy full of fun and I know how to treat a lady. So what am I doing wrong?
2006-08-02 14:54:11 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you haven't talked to me yet, i really like big guys
2006-08-02 15:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by geena_tanner 3 · 12⤊ 2⤋
No offense, but it all depends on how big you are. Some girls just aren't attracted to big guys. Being metrosexual seems to be a big factor as to why my friends like the guys they do lately. I don't get it...I want a guy who is a guy, not one who could be confused for a gay man. Are you confident? Do you have good self-esteem? Do you put yourself out there? Go out, have fun, live life??? If the answer to any of these questions is no, then that might be what you are doing wrong. Good luck. I hope you figure this out!
2006-08-02 22:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're a nice guy. Us nice guys have all heard the phrase "Nice guys finish last." The only way us nice guys have a fighting chance for the woman of our dreams is to take what the bad guys have and use it against them. Maybe you need to be more outgoing and outspoken. Approach a girl and introduce yourself to her. There are signs of disinterest that will signal to you that she's not the one. There are plenty of "fish in the ocean", so experiment. Most girls also like guys who are fun to be with, which you claim to be. Therefore, be fun and show that you ARE fun. Also, it really helps to do something spontaneous in public, like writing a song about her and sing it to her out loud in front of everyone. It takes "muchas cahones" to do something spontaneous. So good luck and have FUN!
2006-08-02 22:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by Hitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, most girls are picky. Although, you sound attractive to me. But I think you're too old for me.
2006-08-02 21:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show them that you care about them
2006-08-02 23:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by sexychic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being sweet
2006-08-02 22:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by ciera d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋