2006-08-02 13:53:58 · 24 answers · asked by deytripper_yeah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as a wife for the first two years i was very jealous to and let me tell you nothing is going to sooth those fears until he knows in his heart that he can trust you 100% and the only way that is going to happen is by giving him time to know that you would never hurt him or your love
2006-08-02 14:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by karebear 1 · 9⤊ 1⤋
My boyfriend was like that it was cute at first and then it got ridiculous ..He didn't want me to go no where i could not go see my friends he started to rule my life and I was miserable I had to get away from him He also said I was messing with someone from work and he knows i go to work came straight home He has insecurities in himself and if you can last good luck I had to get a protective order on my boyfriend it GOT THAT BAD so WATCH out the longer the time the more clingy he will become!!!!
2006-08-02 21:09:38 · answer #2 · answered by classy chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother. Jealous people are all insecure and mean eventually. Give him the boot before you let him ruin your life.
Find someone that enjoys you for who you are and how you affect others. If you stick with someone like this for life or even a little while, you will regret the time you wasted. No matter how sweet and loveable they are its too strenuous to cater like a free psychologist to some pathetic whiny butt.!
2006-08-02 21:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by mspriveye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously you care about him alot or you wouldnt be trying to fix things. im a male and a jealous boyfriend at that. and from experience i know that if you tell him that you care about him then he will feel better. also let him know that if you didnt care about him you would have left him by now and gone for someone else. i dont get what you meen by insecure but if you email me at metalheaded101@gmail.com and explain what you meen by that then i can try to help you out with that too. but like i said always let him know that he is the one and that you are dating him and not anyone else this will make him feel much better. and if you love him tell him you do and if you dont love him then dont tell him that you do because that will only bring up other problems
2006-08-02 21:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by thekidwiththeredhair_yay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can;t change an person u need to find someone else i will in an sitiuiton like that he was controlling posessive jealous of everyman that looks at me and was very insecurity he did not trust me so i say is something wrong with them they the one have the problem not you find someone who will complete trust you and will treat you right
2006-08-02 21:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by cowanelmo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not proceed with this realtionship because it is not worth the pain, the on/off breakups, the continual jealousy, the tears, the on/off again dates, besides you cannot do this he has to become a man soon and soothe the insecurties on his own. i would get another guy.
look deep before you leap. it will be worth it in the long run. there is a variety of guys out there don't deny yourself a decent resltionship
2006-08-02 21:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just reassure him that he is the only man in your life. But, it is up to him to let go of his insecurities. If his problem doesn't get solved anytime soon, then find somebody else who is secure of himself and not worry about the little things in life. Not one female on this planet can change a man- he has to change himself. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-08-02 21:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is show him that he means the world to you...but if it becomes overbearing you should definitely talk it over with him and consider ending the relationship. although a little jealousy is normal true love should extend beyond minor insecurities
2006-08-02 21:02:27 · answer #8 · answered by spinningmisfit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep being honest with him and console him. That's about all you can do. If he gets to the point that he won't let you near your friends or family, then it's time to leave him. But I'd still be a little careful if I were you. Jealousy can lead to abuse in one form or another.
2006-08-02 20:58:36 · answer #9 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with him and explain you only have eyes for him.Tell him you love him and ask him to talk to you about his feelings.Find out why he is insecure and jealous.Just keep reminding him how much apart of your life he is.Tell him how proud you are to be his woman,and most importantly just keep loving him.
2006-08-02 21:01:43 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋