Okay, I'm 13 and have had a boyfriend, Nate, for almost 11 months now and i really like him. He is so sweet to me and he's cute and funny and everything. What's the problem, right? Well there's this other guy, Taylor, that I kind of like and I hear he likes me too. A little part of me wants to dump Nate and go out with Taylor, but I am afraid I will regret it because once I dump Nate i dont think he will take me back . Help?
2006-08-02 13:46:50 · 14 answers · asked by *~*CrossCountryStar*~* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweetheart u r 13 u should be worried about ur future, and school. the best advice i can give to u is dont have any boyfriends right now because for real u dont even know who u really r. and contrary to popular belief boys will be in the future too. they r something that can wait. there is nothing wrong with having "friends" and dating just dont tie urself down to one guy at this age. trust what i say i only speak from experience. if u want some real good advice ask ur mother or older sister thats what they r here 4 please dont think im an old fuddy duddy i am only 29 but been there done that.
2006-08-02 13:58:40 · answer #1 · answered by nate224us 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is totally up to you. But you really like Nate, and you somewhat like Taylor. Taylor could be just a phase, so be really careful. And Nate has been dating you for 11 months. Do you have any idea how awful Nate would feel if you dumped just because you sort of liked Taylor? He would be so confused and would think of you as a jerk. Again, Taylor is just most likely a phase.
2006-08-02 20:55:11 · answer #2 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 13 and have a boyfriend? WOW! you know, you might as well try different things if you don't give Taylor a chance you may never know if this was the one? as for Nate, well you are takeing a chance. Go where the wind takes you. You have your whole life to make choices, good or bad and the consequences that go with them. Take a chance.
2006-08-02 20:55:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way too young to even be having guy problems. Stay with your current boyfriend and see how it will work out in the long run. If all doesn't go well with your boyfriend- and Nate is still available- go ahead and go out with him. Do what you think is best for you but remember: feelings are involved so be careful about the decision you make and deal with the consequences of your decison. Good luck.
2006-08-02 20:52:20 · answer #4 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look you've been with nate for a while. i think u'd be better off with him. but u should go with the one u feel the most for. it may be time for u to find someone different. but remember ur taking a risk. u could loose nate and possibly taylor. get to no taylor a little more and c what happens.
2006-08-02 20:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by southern sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well who do you like the most. Your to young to be settling down forever. Take a chance and see if this guy wants to hook up first before you dump your current bf. If you are thinking of dumping him already then he is not your true love. Better now than later. Don't just be with somebody because you don't want to be alone. Good luck.
2006-08-02 20:51:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well at 13 boyfriends will come and go....But you just described a wonderful boy.....Just because someone flirts with you and you like it doesn't mean throw away what you have now.....remember the grass aways seems greener on the other side......stay with Nate...be friends with Taylor....
2006-08-02 20:55:54 · answer #7 · answered by maggie269 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you say puppy-love?
You've got plenty more years to worry about dating. And besides, if they dump you once at this point they'll probably never go back out with you again. Choose wisely and don't get carried away. You've got more important things like studying to worry about instead of boyfriends.
2006-08-02 20:52:49 · answer #8 · answered by I want my *old* MTV 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 13...thats whats sapose to happen. You are sapose to date all kind of different guys and figure out what is best for you after you are older. You are too young to get too serious about one boy. Date them all...there is plenty of time to grow up, settle down and be in a serious, committed relationship.
2006-08-02 20:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask yourself this
do u really like Nate?
2006-08-02 20:52:53 · answer #10 · answered by Structure 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋