Ok so my step sister has known this guy for awhile. They were both previously involved in other relationships and never got involved with each other until now. I had met him a time or two myself....but dont know him that well and have never shown interest the couple times I had met him. Anyhow, he recently came back to town and spent a week with my stepsis...they hung out together and even slept together. They (or he mainly) has been calling my sis a few times a day. He has asked her to come where he lives now to vacation which she has agreed. Anyhow when they spoke the other night, he asked her what I thought of him? And if she had told me that they slept together. She said yes and she also told him that I thought he was a great guy and that she (my sis) should get together with this guy. Anyhow...WHY EXACTLY WOULD HE WANT TO KNOW WHAT I THOUGHT/THINK OF HIM? Like I said I have never shown interest in him and I am not interested in him. So why is he asking what I think? TY 4 replies:)
2006-08-02 13:43:39 · 4 answers · asked by slykitty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I only met him through my sis..not on my own at a bar, club etc..they were neighbors thats how I met him.
2006-08-02 13:44:24 · update #1
No he is not using her, they are good friends always have been.
2006-08-02 13:54:47 · update #2
He wants and respects the opinion of his possible GFs sister.Whats wrong with that? It's not like he is hitting on you or asking you to sleep with him.It matters to me what my GF family thinks about me,not much,but it matters.
2006-08-02 13:51:36 · answer #1 · answered by throatp0ker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy gets seriously interested in a woman, it is important to him that her family also thinks well of him. If yr stpsis had answered that you thought he was a jerk, then he wd know he had a prob. But if you think he is great guy, then he knows he is OK and has no family resistance. Romance goes a lot easier when your partner's family is not resisting it or actually approves.
2006-08-02 20:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two possibilities. 1) He liked you and wanted to make sure you liked him back for your sisters sake. 2) More likely he just having sex with you sister for fun and you're the next target. Watch and see if he doesn't try and see you again. All the while he be sleeping with your sister until he thinks he can talk you into it.
2006-08-02 20:53:08 · answer #3 · answered by ncmist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hes using ur sister to get closer to you.
2006-08-02 20:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by wrstler4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋