I’m in my early 40’s and dating a man for almost 9 months he’s 38. When we first got together we had sex often at least 1or 2x’s a week. Now it’s 1x a month maybe. The last time we made full passionate love was in MAY! We have had quickies and other things. It’s driving me crazy. I talked to him. I Told him he needs to step up his game. He is now fearful that he cannot keep up with me. I am not asking for daily but once a week or every other week would work. I think it’s too early in the relationship to have these issues. Is this normal? I have NEVER experienced this before.
2006-08-02 13:43:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The fact is everyone is different. You could probably find some statistics on what's average for a man age 38. Personal experience and common sense tells me that once a month is less than average for age 38 though. First you need to ask, if once a month is what he is 'able' to do? Or if once a month is what he is 'satisfied' to do? If the first answer, then it is a matter for doctors. The second is a matter of stimulating the mind. And I can tell you that just asking for more, isn't stimulating to a man of 38.
2006-08-02 13:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by TechnoRat60 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heres what u do ask him over cook him tea watch a movie than jump on him and tell him how u wont .and see how u go do it once a week he get the idea.
2006-08-02 21:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by OceanBlue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea that is kinda weird, he mita saw your relationship as more booty call status rather than a regular status, so i would kinda try to pry that info out of him if you could, other than that move on and date, and maybe keep him for bootycall if your desperate
2006-08-02 20:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would certainly not be enough for me. Are you sure he is still as interested in this relationship as you are?
2006-08-02 20:55:54 · answer #4 · answered by lavenderroseford 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋