why do all man wants to sleep with you and thats it ?
are there guys out there who truelly love by ones actions' and not by how ones' body and face looks
2006-08-02 13:41:35 · 21 answers · asked by shine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all the guys you first described allready have a boyfreind
2006-08-02 13:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by shimmeringfallenangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in some ways you answered your own question. First off, you are looking for a man. Not a boy, or a guy who thinks he's a man. The problem your facing is that in order to find a man, like the one you described, you need to be looking in the right place, or be tuned into what this "man" will appear like in public.
The problem most females have is that they are under the idea that this man will wave his hand to you and say, "It's me, you know the faithful, nice, humorous, good looking guy you've been waiting for". But in reality these guys know who they are and feel like they don't need to advertise the fact that they are that great. Most of the men that I would consider having those qualities are usual the ones that keep to themselves. They feel no need to be loud and obnoxious to get attention. These men have a different mindset than those guys you see always trying to get attention from the opposite sex. The guys who just want physical satisfaction haven't come to the realization that they can get more satisfaction from a worthwhile relationship.
So, if you want to find a man who meets your criteria, you need to be looking in places you have not yet tried, or start considering that these men do exist and that they might be the quiet guy standing next to you in the store. You'll never know unless you are bold enough to strike up a conversation.
2006-08-02 14:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by mstang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks will always be an important thing. If a guy just sleeps with you but leaves after, it is because you are not worth settling for. You might have a great body but not much up there, try to keep the guy interested in you more. I was a player for a while but then when I met somebody worth having a serious relationship with, I stopped. You gotta work on your personality traits, baby.
2006-08-02 13:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are gentlemen out there. They are not all cowboys. But all genuine cowboys are gentlemen. If you don't have sex with
anyone anymore, you will find Mr. Right. After all the wild times are done and a guy starts to think about settling down, they go whine to their moms about how they want old fashioned girls.
They complain that all the girls out there are whores. What does that tell ya? Don't put out.
2006-08-02 13:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by mspriveye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to say it's all our fault (women) but most women played a part in that. they leave nothing to the imagination anymore. they got their goods all hanging out and wonder why that's the first thing men focus on. Some women don't make men wait before jumpin in the sack so since men have gotten used to "gettin it" so easily they expect it
2006-08-02 13:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by donise225 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are those kind of guys out there and I happen to be one of them. Looks are ice but what really matters is whats on the inside that counts to me the most
2006-08-02 13:46:45 · answer #6 · answered by JW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm over here! .............................. We are out here and when I say "out here", I mean in full force!
But why classify all men because you found a few losers. Maybe its not the guys, maybe you need to check "your" preferences.
Sometimes girls (not you) pamper themselves with all the lil classy accessories and dress half naked just to get some attention. And when they do, they complain that guys only want one thing.
I like the ambitious girl that wears the two piece suit and walking shoes (gym shoes) and carrying here pumps in her hand on her way to work. She intimidate the losers you talking about.
2006-08-02 14:04:42 · answer #7 · answered by dadnnelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if they were out there they would be afraid to talk with you. After all you reap what you sow. I don't even know you and I can tell you are a tad bit bitter. Experts believe that over 75% of our communication is non-verbal. (body language)
2006-08-02 13:50:10 · answer #8 · answered by mr. Bob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi nice question to ask,i am one of the guys ur looking for,bcos id ont see how beautiful a girl looks(i dont mean that i dont see beautiful girls)but for my partner i would prefer a kind, understanding and a gd girl insteand of a sexy or beautiful girl.bcos i believe outer beauty is not permanent(bcos u r not sure how long its gona last)what is important is the inner beauty.that is as isaid earlier,kindness,understanding and a girl who can take care of me,and these r permanent(until and unless u screw it u pwith ur own hands).i didnt even touch my girl,bcos i dont look at her beauty but i have trusted her and i know she an take goo care of me.so that is it.ok
take care.byeeeeeeeeee
chris
2006-08-02 14:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by BLR_DEHRADUN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but you only go for the hot ones. So I'm say your pretty shallow. So your asking if there a hot guy that doesn't do that, that's a no. Unless he's religious then you got a good hot guy.
2006-08-02 13:47:12 · answer #10 · answered by Gumby G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are out here by the millions. Problem is that girls like you look right past us at the bad boys. Dont defend yourself on this matter. Your question alone tells the tale that you look for bad boys or you wouldnt make this kind of statement.
2006-08-02 13:46:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋