I've been waiting forever to get out of the house (wisdom teeth, then sick) and my family and I are planning to go somewhere tomorrow. But today me and my two siblings got in huge fights. I don't want to be around them at all. Now I don't feel like going tomorrow. But I was really looking forward to it. What should I do? Serious answers please-I'm not in the mood for jokers.
2006-08-02 13:34:27 · 16 answers · asked by kid_at_heart 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
EXCUSE ME "flachick." How DARE you call me a spoiled little brat. You know NOTHING about me-my age, my personality, the way I act, NOTHING. You have no right to speak to me like that. Why the hell did you answer my question if all you were planning to do was spit fire at me? Get a LIFE. I hope you next time you're feeling down, your mother whips a brick at your face and tells your spoiled brat's *** to get over it.
2006-08-02 13:49:58 · update #1
Honestly I think you should just go. You say urself that you haven't been out the house in a while, your family...siblings fight all the time and the next minute their back talking. Don't let that get to you. Seems like you need a break, go for it and enjoy urself, you say urself that ur looking forward to it, so y let others obstruct you from going. Go on and and enjoy urself, ur family will come around.....good luck hun...
2006-08-02 13:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay, ask yourself what brought about this big fight in the first place.
Whoever was in the wrong you have to tell yourself that they are your siblings and you cannot avoid them forever.
Why not make peace now, give each other hugs, say you are sorry that this happen (not necessarily your fault but who cares whose fault is it anyway....) and that you hope that all of you can enjoy the outing. Tell them you have really looked forward to it, you have been so excited, and you are not going to let this tift spoil all your plans. I am very sure that once they hear that
you have wanted this so much they would realise that you love and want to be with them it would open up old happy memories.... When we show love we send out positive
energies and this will in turn attract love into our life....
2006-08-02 20:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by okidoki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go! Some day you will look back on this, and you will be glad you did, for a lot of reasons. Not to be morbid, but who's to say this might be the last family outing for the entire family. You have put up with your siblings this long, another day will be a breeze. It's the things we don't do in life that we end up regretting. Go, do, have fun!!!
2006-08-02 20:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how old you or your siblings were. We all have our bad days and fight with the ones we love. Make up with them (sometimes the bigger person says they are sorry first). Just remember family will love and be there for you always. Try to settle this tonight....& Go and have a wonderful time...
2006-08-02 20:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by maggie269 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the grand scheme of things, is your tiff with your siblings something that will last forever? If not, be the bigger person, get over yourself and have fun. Life's too short to go through it pi$$ed off about things that don't matter.
2006-08-02 20:39:38 · answer #5 · answered by daspook19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with them and forget about what happened. It's also OK to ignore them. I've been in so many quarrels w/ my brother before and there was the hate that's building up for so long...then after a long time, when each of us realized what we have been doing and accept our differences...the hate just went away. I'm now in good terms with my brother. I suggest you just give each other time and space.
2006-08-02 20:43:38 · answer #6 · answered by Nevwe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is more important to you; staying at home and being miserable, or setting aside your own petty feelings and enjoying a little family time? Only you have the answer.
2006-08-02 20:39:07 · answer #7 · answered by nwtobe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go and ignore them!Why let 2 brats spoil your good time!!!
2006-08-02 20:37:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh for heavens sakes......Grow up you spoiled little brat!!! Oh, so you are not in the mood for jokers.......oh, please!!! So, you had a fight with your siblings and now you are going to pout......well, shame on you! When you learn to act better your life will be better!!!!
2006-08-02 20:40:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say you should go and try to defuse the situation by kindness.
if your siblings aggravate you, just walk away. they are probably younger,......be more mature than them and be an example...it will pay off before you know it........hope this helped
2006-08-03 11:26:15 · answer #10 · answered by robert w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋