2006-08-02 13:30:02 · 14 answers · asked by chinkee104 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really love him then it is never too long to wait. It also depends on what he is doing that is wrong. If he is cheating, dump the bum, because he doesn't respect you or your relationship. If he is hitting you, dump him please, because a man should never hit a woman. If he is not working, then be patient and help him to find a job. If he is verbally abusive, then leave him, loving someone shouldn't hurt that much. If it is none of the above then support him because I am sure you don't always act right either.
2006-08-02 13:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This really depends on how he is acting "wrong." If it's things like cleaning up after himself or furthering his career (or even stickier things like being more romantic, etc.)--these are things that a man can (and will, in my experience) improve upon as he matures, given the right support. If this is the sort of thing you're talking about, I would suggest looking for signs of continual improvement and a sincere effort on his part.
If you're talking about him treating you well, being faithful, honest, etc...these are character traits that are very, very hard to change. I wouldn't count on it, unless something very major has occured in his life (birth of a baby, giving up an addiction, etc -- these things can *occasionally* spur a major change.)
2006-08-02 20:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by I'm_Bored 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think there is a hand book for this type of thing, however love is what it is. sometimes things never change and other times they get worst to get better. besides they say any thing worth having is worth working, and waiting for. i say go after him dont wait on him men are too slow
2006-08-02 23:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by ms_sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how he's acting wrong. Generally if you have to ask the question, it's already been too long.
2006-08-02 20:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't acting right from the beginning, find someone who does. You might think you "love" him, but if you really did love him, you wouldn't try to change him.
2006-08-02 20:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by Linda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe i waited for this guy for 7 months and he treated me like **** the whole time each time i thought he would be different but each time he was the same dont wait to long i did and i got my heart broken i loved him and he said he loved me but he cheated on me and would break up with me for other girls and it was just a dramatic mess its up to you how long to wait but dont keep giving him chances to screw you over then screw you TRUST ME
2006-08-02 20:35:04 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥livin_life_and_lovin_it♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 months is the longest you should wait! and that's only if he loves you enough to change
2006-08-02 20:34:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a problem with the way he acts you should find someone else.
2006-08-02 20:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by Valient25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men usually don't change. Why would you want to change him? Love him the way he is or leave him.
2006-08-02 20:33:08 · answer #9 · answered by bush_kills_for_god 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love has no time limit. If you love someone show them and you will get love in return.
2006-08-02 20:33:19 · answer #10 · answered by yp_toby_pickering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋