he is so jealous even though ive already tried my best to prove to him that i love him
2006-08-02 13:27:33 · 21 answers · asked by angel134sky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just have a conversation telling him that you really love him and you should really tell him that if there is no trust in a relationship, there is no love between you and let him sleep with it and think about it and tell him that if he'll continue to be like that or just threat him about continuing his jealousy maybe it's over between you and him.........
2006-08-02 13:46:48 · answer #1 · answered by rdj 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I wish I knew, I have the same problem. My boyfriend seems to think that I'm always messin' around on him. I never figured out why he would say that. I've done so much to prove my love for him but every now and then he gets paranoid and even admitted it to me. Maybe he's just worried that someone might steal you away. Try spending more time with him. Do things that you wouldn't normally do. It's hard for some men to think even for a minute that their woman can be faithful but it is possible. He just has to realize that.
2006-08-02 13:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by sugrnspice2xasnice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have put your brand on him and he's the one, listen up. Reverse the role. If you had a beautiful boyfriend, yes I used that word, where you didn't feel worthy of him and all the girls watch him walk by and you know if you weren't there they would jump his bones. How could he make you feel secure.
Don't ever comment on how other men look , even in movies. always write notes of love and give little mementos of your affection.
Try not to be aware of the opposite sex. in time he will be more and more secure. Then you can relax a bit.
If he's worth it do it. He thinks you are to wonderful to keep to himself, let him know , he can.
Good luck
2006-08-02 13:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is too clingy, jealous and insecure then he may not learn until after you leave him.
If you really want to stay with him and work through it then you can try having a rational discussion with him. Stop doing things that cause him concern. Help improve his self esteem.
2006-08-02 13:31:10 · answer #4 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother. Not only is he not worth it, but insecure, jealous men are usually a lost cause. There's nothing you can do to make the monsters in his head go away.
2006-08-02 13:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by Alex G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of this situation in the long run, there's no pleasing a jealous person, coz he's got a sick obsession & his own insecurities issues & he'll lay it on u endlessly. it can lead to violonce to with some people, so i think u should listen to your gutt instects about this one..
2006-08-02 13:33:20 · answer #6 · answered by Maya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am curious if you have lots of GUY friends that are like BROTHERS to you.My ex-wife have these kinds of friends,and she always said I was silly to be jealous.Yeah I sure was silly right up until she ran off with her GUY FRIEND BROTHER THINGY and left me to raise the kids alone.Mostly this answer was for the women telling you to dump the guy because it's all his fault.
2006-08-02 13:38:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look girl u said u have tried everything. why is he jealous for? does he not trust u with other people? if there is no trust there is no relationship. believe me i've been there
2006-08-02 13:33:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is that way, I just remind him that he has no reason to be jealous. I spend most of my free time with him and I sleep with him everynight and he has no reason not to trust me.
2006-08-02 13:31:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
prove to him that you love him by cheating. Go to the department of jealousy at city hall.
2006-08-02 13:30:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you try to prove to him that u love him?
2006-08-02 13:31:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋