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^^ i am insecure & i always feel fatt..but deep down i know im not i have a really skinny stomach but thickish thighs. I really just have an aeroglass figure but i don't like my legs..they come along with the wider hips. Is thi height weight and age normal? or am i really chunky//fat?

2006-08-02 13:22:03 · 15 answers · asked by Shelly 3 in Health Other - Health

15 answers

You're fine! Thicker hips and thighs make your waist look a lot thinner, which is good! I'm only 5 ft (20 years old, I'm short, I know lol) and I have 36" hips, and I love it! It makes my waist look so small and gives me a better hourglass shape.

Many guys love hips, thighs, and legs, so don't feel insecure about it! And if any guy EVER tells you you're fat, dump him right then and there. No guy that really cares about you will ever try to hurt your self-esteem like that.

But I don't think you're fat at all. You're 3 inches taller than me and weigh 2 pounds less, and I don't consider myself fat. If you're at all insecure though, try doing a couple excercies every now and then to help you feel better about yourself and keep in shape. You're still going to grow a little taller and fill out a little bit, so by the time you're 18 or 19, you'll look perfectly fine. :-)

2006-08-02 13:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by chica_zarca 6 · 0 0

I'm you're height and age and I weigh 140 pounds. I have the thick thighs and hips and yes, I will admit to wearing pants many days but even when I'm not I try hard to embrace them. I hate my pot belly but it makes me me some days I feel like crawling in a hole. Somedays I feel beautiful. Sometimes when I go to the store and I see other people that weren't as lucky as me and had mental disabilities and deformities it really makes me grateful for what I have. Especially when I see them with a huge smile just enjoying life.

2006-08-02 20:40:39 · answer #2 · answered by Ruby 2 · 0 0

NO! You're fine! That's great - and so is a curvy figure, definitely. None-curvy girls are jealous of you, I promise.
And it's definitely very normal to be insecure about your body at 14. Some sort of unfair worry that happens to everyone then - but it gets better!
Try saying nice things to yourself every time you look in the mirror - that can really boost how you feel about yourself and your body.
Good luck!

2006-08-02 20:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by Cedar 5 · 0 0

Please, honey. You've got thick legs because you more than likely have a muscular body type and probably are at least fairly regularly involved in exercise of some kind (PE? any team sports?). I'm the same way. You're not going to get popsicle stick legs, because you're built tougher than that. Just stay active. You're doin great.

2006-08-02 20:28:41 · answer #4 · answered by Woz 4 · 0 0

Sweetie,
I have a son who's 13 yr. old,5'4,180 pounds.His pediatrician says he will be taller.(his great-grandpa was 6'4 and 250)He is built like a tank.His 14 yr old bro is 5'6 and 165.They are both healthy,normal boys.Their 10 yr old sis is 5'1. See a pattern?Your family genes have alot to do with how you turn out. I'm willing to bet you'll turn out beautifully!

2006-08-03 11:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by L.T. 4 · 0 0

sounds a little skinny for a 14 year old. you'll lose a few pounds when you age another 4 years

2006-08-02 20:26:25 · answer #6 · answered by Alfred Y 3 · 0 0

dont get down on yourself while every person does at times. your figure would probably change as you get older through those teen years. anyways i know some guys who said they like thick girls. but if you want to know where body should be at, ask your doctor.

2006-08-02 20:36:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

sounds like you will grow into a great body over the next few years, certainly an attractive woman!

2006-08-02 20:26:59 · answer #8 · answered by misterlyle 3 · 0 0

*coughs* you, in no way, shape or form, are fat....you wouldn't qualify for stocky, either.....at 14 years old, you're just hitting your stride....if someone tells you you're fat, they gotta be braindead.
Fat, is 250 and above....114, you're not even halfway there.....enjoy the great shape you're in...and enjoy a chocolate covered sundae....you're fine!

2006-08-02 20:28:17 · answer #9 · answered by steveraven 3 · 0 0

im 15...and what you are saying is sexy..that is what guys are looking for...it would be better if ur butt was big if not its still perfect.take this from a high school student!

2006-08-02 20:26:59 · answer #10 · answered by nothriller 2 · 0 0

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