I really don't want him to, not because I am scared or anything but because like ugh its my vagina and I kinda am afraid of his response. He really wants to though and I feel bad saying no all the time. How do most guys re-act and what should I do to like prepare if I were to let him??
2006-08-02 13:16:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, this is a tough one. If you are uncomfortable with the act, explain to your boyfriend that you are uncomfortable. I must advise you on this though, according to Dr. Hilda Hutcherson a gynecologist and author of "What Your Mother Never Told You About Sex" your vagina is the cleanest area of your body. It is actually cleaner tha your mouth. This is, because the uterus cleans itself out. You may want to purchase or go to the book store and read about this one.
2006-08-02 13:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by Shay 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you're really against it, he needs to respect that, but I suggest you let him. Many girls are weirded out by it, but most guys adore being down there. The only preparation you need to do is make sure you bathe. I'm not talking super scrub, just clean. What you consider icky about yourself is completely natural. You have pheremones down there are their only reason for being is to attract men. Let him be attracted.
2006-08-02 13:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are. Are you ready to start having sex? If not, wait until the right person comes along. You'll know when.
BTW, most men like to please their women this way. I really enjoy it myself. For preparation, just be reasonably clean. When he's doing it, tell him what feels good and what doesn't.
2006-08-02 13:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, well for one dont let him pressure you into anything...and for 2 TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL!!!! if hes a man not a boy, he will understand and respect it...tell him "im scared, im self consious of how my vagina looks and you going down there makes me nervous"....maybe he will say something that will make you less nervous who knows. And if you do..i just recommend shaving it/ trimming it...and washing it (in the shower or tub or w/e)
2006-08-02 13:22:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mm.....well, i think u should like let him if u truly think u love him that much, but not to the point where it becomes a problem, just enough lol...and btw i dont think that u would be a great couple cuz if u really did like him then u wouldnt think twice and ask a question like this online
2006-08-02 13:24:04 · answer #5 · answered by Jim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a pair of scissors and give yourself a haircut first of all, and make sure you take a bath, prior . . . lay back, grip the bedsheets, hang on for the ride of your life, you'll never let him come up for air.
2006-08-02 13:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the best answer i can give you, is to let him do it because guys like to do it i dont know why but we do. every girl i have done it with like it when you put a piece of ice in it then start licking it
2006-08-02 13:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by bamick05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really turns guys on to let them do it, just make sure it's clean. You could shower ahead of time or something.
2006-08-02 13:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by Carpet Shark Luver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take you a good douche and a shower and let the man go to work
2006-08-02 15:46:50 · answer #9 · answered by libby71763 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guy only has one response to a coochie and beleive me he'll like it!
2006-08-02 13:22:24 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋