Why do so many of you post the Q "why do guys only care about looks and dont care about personality"? isnt that the dumbest Q ever...thats like me asking why do girls only care about money...not all women are that way... im tired of girls asking that...i care about looks who doesnt? my theory is looks is what captures your eye..and personality is what makes you keep talking to them and keep liking them. WOMEN only the JERK GUYS like girls for only their looks...so stop thinking we all do.
2006-08-02 13:14:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with you 100% on this. Most women think just because they came across a guy that was shallow that all men are like that. This is why sooo many nice guys in the world are left single & lonely because us woman never give them a chance, we always think they are like all the others.Its ashame, a lot of woman are labeled "sluts" and "easy" by guys just because the guy has had a bad expeirence with a woman of the past, I seriously think people need to grow up & freakin understand that not everyone is the same.
2006-08-02 13:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by angeleyez410 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that's why the saying goes, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder...". Everyone has a different opinion of what makes a person physically attractive. Lucky for us, not everyone looks alike! I do agree that looks are the reason you initially become drawn to someone you don't know, and then their personality is the reason you stay with them or not. Sometimes though, you meet someone you're not attracted to at first but the more you get to know them the more attracted you get... this seems to work in reverse too. I have also met some absolutely physically beautiful people only to have their personalities (or lack of!) make them seem totally UNATTRACTIVE! It's nice to hear a guy that's unafraid to voice his honest opinion, whether or not everyone agrees!
2006-08-02 13:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are the most important thing in life. If you are ugly, then you will be alone for the rest of your life. It's all about looks. Look at me: I have a big nose, a skinny face, a long neck and balding. Women find me utterly repulsive. That is why I am 33 and still a virgin. Never had a girlfriend and never kissed a girl.
2006-08-02 13:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by NJboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like I said in a previous question you asked (and im like answering your questions, I went to your profile and answer all questions that are open) my boyfriend's first attraction towards me was my a-s-s then (after going out) he liked everything else about me; so much that we are getting married. So girls that think that all guys ONLY CARE ABOUT THE LOOKS have not experienced a good guy in their lives cause guys DO look at physical attraction for like a minute then go to the way you present yourself and then to your personality
2006-08-03 09:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by sweet lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bigger question (and I'm allowed to say this because I'm a girl) is why does it surprise women that guys DO care about looks? It goes back to our caveman days...men instinctively look for a woman that looks healthy and would bear his children(clear skin & eyes, healthy hair, defined hips and breasts). Women instinctively look for a "hunter-protector". So while women don't necessarily care about well-defined abs, most are not attracted (at least at first) to a scrawny, weak looking guy. While we have evolved enough to get past first impressions, I think women would be a lot happier just accepting that it's man's nature to care about looks.
2006-08-02 13:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by I'm_Bored 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears to me, that you've answered your own question. Not everyone thinks the same way. Believe it or not, we like to look at a nice bottom and thighs also. I don't think that makes us jerks. Apparently, the women who ask you this question, are not big on thinking. It's time to swim in another pool darlin.
2006-08-02 13:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by *~*~*~~~His Angel~~~*~*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are correct because i no i make sure im fresh when i step out and i no a male will see that before my personality. And also i get more attention when i look bad then good so no all guys are not jerks!
2006-08-02 13:21:51 · answer #7 · answered by smiles18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can honestly say I have never said that, and I agree with you about the whole looks and personality thing. I actually try to talk to guys who aren't that attractive. It sometimes makes their day.
2006-08-02 13:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well said i like the way you put that and im glad to finally see a guy not only care about looks
2006-08-02 13:21:15 · answer #9 · answered by jenna s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the most part...the reason we assume all guys are jerks is that most of us have been hurt by these jerks....and it makes it easier to deal with the pain if u assume thst sll guys are jerks and it wasn't just one that u picked...u see?
2006-08-02 13:20:26 · answer #10 · answered by badhair92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋