2006-08-02 13:08:08 · 23 answers · asked by Wow gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks 4 all your help!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-02 13:36:47 · update #1
being a lesbian is a sin just try to focus on guys and think about them don't think about girls that way you'll be fine
2006-08-02 13:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by lillaurz002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK don't worry about the sin thing. Kind of rediculous to take LEVITICUS literally especially since it says man with man not girl with girl and Jesus obsolved jewish law except for the 10 commandments.
At 13 you have a lot of experimenting to do before you commit to a specific category of sexuality. Don't spend a lot of time worrying about it. It is natural to be curious and trying to subscribe to somebody else's stereotypes is a lot to ask for a 13 year old.
Don't limit yourself. Enjoy life. One day when you are about 30 you will be able to look back at your life so far and see which way you lean. Might end up in the middle!
Good luck.
2006-08-02 20:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by Kristonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I'm reading your question correctly, think you said lesbian, then you have a lot to learn sweetie. I went through the same phase. I didn't know what to do. My mom told me, I'm too young to worry about that. Once I finish school, and decide on my future then the rest would fall into place. Just because you are having weird thoughts or feelings does not make it so, they are just sensations that you've never experienced. Don't take them at face value, you are still young, and have a lot more to do in life. And whether you are or not, there's nothing to be scared about, well that also depends on your relious beliefs too I guess.
2006-08-02 20:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by MommyOf2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly don't be scared if you are a lesbian that is nothing to be ashamed of or scared of. you are only 13 and while some people know their sexual preference at that age many people have fantasies about the same sex during their teenage years and have sexual thoughts about friends. this is normal and if you are a lesbian that is normal too. just let you feelings rule what you want at the moment and embrace what you are feeling. i had feelings about girls and even experimented and now i have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. just remember don't pigeon hole yourself as gay or straight. you will have a clearer picture when you get older for now don't be scared things will work out in a way that you are comfortable with. good luck.
2006-08-02 20:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be scared. Give it some time. If youre attracted to women then it's who you are and you should be proud!
But most people go through a phase like this when very young like you and it might not neccesarily last.
Whatever happens, being a lesbian doesnt make you a bad, or good person.
Relax :}
2006-08-02 20:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you find your self more attracked to women then you are men. and you fantasies about being with women. Id say you are a lesbian. But dont make any decisions right now. Wait until you at least have sex with one man and one women. Then decide which you like best. Wish you the best luck.
2006-08-02 20:12:18 · answer #6 · answered by eranjc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry you may feel that way but you could be wrong if you feel as if you are attached to girls more then boys its okay if people begin to make fun of you its going to be hard but maybe you should get one of your closest friend and talk to her about it make sure she wont tell a single soul!!!! Your not weird your different so if you are just treasure it
2006-08-02 20:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by sonynestor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly your to young right now to know if you are or not. if its just the styles you like than you could just possiblely be a tomboy. if its looking at other females that you are worried about dont pay it any attention because really beleive it or not alot of women do that to compare their bodies with the other female. its ok to say someone preety and they are a female.
2006-08-02 20:16:08 · answer #8 · answered by keke3188 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing to be scared about bieng a lesbian isnt the greatest thing in the world but its not the worst there r a lot of lesbians in the world your not the only one be confident in yourself and always listen to what your heart says if you need more advice email me at freemyhomies@yahoo.com
2006-08-02 20:14:48 · answer #9 · answered by freemyhomies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about this. wiat a bit more, lets say till you start high school. you'll figure things out them most likely. i did. i was a bit worried/confused at 13 too. i decided not to think about it and when i started hi school(at 14) i understood that i'm bi.
and there is nothing to be scared of, trust me
2006-08-02 20:12:29 · answer #10 · answered by Mafia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well a man and a woman is the way to go....thats the way it should be.....some people are born gay or lesbo by nature...if you don't know ur a les...then don't fus yourself too much about it....you don't have to be a les because you see alot of people all of a sudden thinking that being a lesbo is cool
2006-08-02 20:15:52 · answer #11 · answered by **sweetbabe** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋