2006-08-02 12:59:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I live in her house, and I use her car alot. I am a student so she pays for alot of things for me. I do treat her very well but she says she feels alot of presure from me and feels taken for granted. I am starting a new job in a few weeks and will be moving out soon, so im not a bum, I have just been very reliant on her recently.
2006-08-02 13:07:08 · update #1
Say thankyou everytime she does something for you and give her a kiss on the cheek. A simple thankyou makes the world of difference believe me. Also, if you dont already, try doing for her what she does for you
2006-08-02 13:05:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
So many women feel this way. Honestly, it's a simple recipe if you will. Men think appreciation comes in the form of tasks. You can do something and it tells her you appreciate her. But... women respond best to sound and verbal cues. You have to TELL her or it's like it doesn't even count for a woman. Yes, showing her is important too, but showing her without telling her is useless. You have to do both. You can give her a back rub, but while doing it just kiss her on the cheek and whisper how much you love and appreciate her. Seriously, one thing like that can keep her content for a week... but then you have to tell her something else really nice.
2006-08-02 13:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can fix this by doing the most simple things....tell her thank you every once in a while, buy her 1 rose...yes 1, give her a hug, write her a brief letter or note and put it in a bag that she takes to work or a purse, give her a back massage, or any little thing that shows you truly care about her.....its the little things that matter the most. You don't have to do it everyday, but once in a while, without her having to ask is really nice.
2006-08-02 13:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by lt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask her. How long have you been with her, maybe she doesn't feel like she is getting as much of your attention as she used to. Without knowing you and without more details, there's no way that you'll get a really good response from this site. She's the only one who can explain how she's feeling and exactly what it is that makes her feel this way. Tell her you love her and you want to know what you can do to work on making your relationship better.
2006-08-02 13:04:59 · answer #4 · answered by Cyndi Storm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes even when we love someone, we do not show appreciation. Your girlfriend may feel unappreciated because you do not go out of your way to show her. Do not take it for granted that she "knows" she is appreciated. Now that she has told you that she doesn't feel it, you need to show her. Take the time out to tell her that she has done a great job at something. Let her know that you enjoy her company. Tell her that you appreciate her in all the small ways. They add up. Remember to always let her know in one way or another how much you appreciate, AND love her!
2006-08-02 13:05:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a communication problem. Make sure you TELL her you love her, and not only when she asks you if you do! Also make sure you compliment her when she looks great, and thank her when she does something nice for you. We like to hear these things regularly, it makes us feel great. Little presents aren't nescesscary but couldn't hurt-- we love to know you are thinking about us. PS- I am sure you treat her nicely too, right?
2006-08-02 13:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by chicky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u say her how u are in love with her?
if u are every time looking at other girls, why u say u don't know
it could be that someone said her lies about u
did u remember her birthday and the day u got her
if u never did something bad like that, your girlfriend is only trying to makes u feel bad
or she wants your money
2006-08-02 13:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you showing her how much you love her. Words are one thing but women want more than words.
Do you think she is sexy?
Is she pretty?
Does she do nice things for you?
Do you ever tell her?
Grab her and give her a big kiss and maybe a surprise present just because you love her.
2006-08-02 13:05:37 · answer #8 · answered by jillsaves613 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she cooks you a meal, tell her it was delicious, offer to wash up. Cook breakfast/dinner for her one day telling her she cooks for you most of the time so you thought you'd cook for her for a change. When her hair/ clothes look nice, tell her she looks beautiful. Thank her for ironing your shirts when you see them hanging in the wardrobe.
If she put clean curtains up, tell her they look nice. You just have to notice things I'm afraid and let her know. She will be very happy believe me.
2006-08-02 13:09:02 · answer #9 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Friend, You should know girls want time, apprications. They want to be touched. They want to know you and known by you. I suggest you should go to long drive and do some new things which don`t aspect from you. It will bring new thrill in your life. Otherwise it will be same as it is.
2006-08-02 17:37:48 · answer #10 · answered by wind_chill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋