okay....recently my b/f of 7 months told me to choose between him and one of my close friends. well me and my friend got in a fight and she called and said our friendship was over... me and her have only been friends for like a week. which should i choose... my b/f or my best friend?
2006-08-02 12:59:26 · 4 answers · asked by chelsea b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well she got in a fight with my boyfriend too and called him stuff and told him that she was gonna break me and him up.
2006-08-02 13:05:40 · update #1
your bf youve been with him for 7 months and youve had this friend for a week your bf is way more important then that friend and any way that friend called and said your friendship was over so dont worry about it yall arnt friends anymore any way so stay with your boyfriend and dont worry about that friend
2006-08-02 13:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by jenna s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who makes you choose, is not really your friend. Absolutely choose your best friend. Your boyfriend should never have made such an ultimatum... maybe he is controlling though, and if that is the case, why would you want to be with someone that controlling? Next he could make you choose between him and your family? Who knows. But dump him before it gets worse... seriously, it's a sign of abuse.
2006-08-02 13:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, big drama. i dont mean that as a smart remark, i mean real drama. It's never good 2 be given that choice. It sounds 2 me like your new friend needs 2 learn what being a friend is all about. so far she sounds like she may be a little hard 2 get along with. If u and your b/f get along and care 4 each other then i think u should take his side.
2006-08-02 13:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by juslookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't choose !!
if he forces you to do , he doesn't love you !!!
2006-08-02 13:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by horras 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋