please help me I see him in a couple of days and we have been dating a week last time I saw him we didnt hold hands but I really want to. How do i tell him I want him to hold my hand without actually saying it. I am 15 he is 14
2006-08-02 12:34:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hold your hand out to him in playing and have him grab it like you want to dance playfully.
Or just grab his hand one day.
2006-08-02 12:37:46 · answer #1 · answered by Meow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say anything, you just gently take his hand in yours and keep on walking. You two are still very young and anything that would involve him touching you in a way other than the normal course of being friends is probably something that he doesn't know how or when to initiate. So, you do it for him. Peace.
2006-08-02 19:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by julianna76301 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make an excuse to do it once - ex. be scared or surprised, dancing, etc. - and than just keep a hold. Its normal if he feels uncomfortable but if he tries to let go or get out of it in anyway its too early to be holding hands for you guys.
2006-08-02 19:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jstlovinyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys that age have very little knowledge about dating and he might be afraid you won't want his hand and reject him. so try this little trick. start play fighting somehow and grab his hand like you are trying to restrain it. when things calm down, keep his hand loosely, don't squeeze. if he doesn't let go, you're in. if he does, then every now and then when you are walking, walk close enough to him that your hands brush. the trick is to keep giving signals that you want to hold hands. remember, he is probably just as nervous as you.
2006-08-02 19:42:50 · answer #4 · answered by locksmithite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold his hand 1st every time and after 3 - 4 times dont let him come to u and hold urs... it will work
2006-08-02 19:40:13 · answer #5 · answered by suf_h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grab his hand, hold it as you are holding a toddler. or pretend to read his future in his palm
2006-08-02 19:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by sweetielad_78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just grab the hand! Im sure he'll feel better too.
2006-08-02 19:38:30 · answer #7 · answered by detroitsports_fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should hold his hand maybe hes shy or doesnt know if u want him to hold ur hand give it a shot
GOOD LUCK :)!!!!!
2006-08-02 19:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm..if you hold purse.move it to the side he's not on. or...you can just hold his arm..(kinda like hugging his arm?) and look at his face..if he likes it..you'll know..and then just gradually get to his hand. ^^ -- good luck
2006-08-02 19:40:20 · answer #9 · answered by iD2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys, boys really, that age have trouble showing affection in public. Girls mature faster but guys have to be taught.
you've got your work cut out for you.
2006-08-02 19:38:14 · answer #10 · answered by brian k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋