the parents trying to do things to break u all up
2006-08-02 12:23:03 · 36 answers · asked by sweetbiscuit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well as long as my boyfriend loved me i wouldnt care about the rest.
2006-08-02 12:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by sourgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I will continue the relationship with my boyfriends, I should know better than my parents, but of course I will still listen to my parent's advice but not all things they said I will follow. I will be the one to find out if it is true or not but not just break up with my boy friend because my parents don't agree to them.
2006-08-02 12:55:43 · answer #2 · answered by ETan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No .... in the long run its not worth it ... I went through a similar situation well I thought initially that sure enough my bf will be my side regardless and guess what people change he decided to break up with me after we had been dating for over a year ... when I asked him why did his parents not like me .. turned out he didnt even ask them why
I am sure he is a different person bubt if u decide to stick with him regardless of his parents liking then make sure he sticks around for ever
2006-08-02 12:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by Hillary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i'l surely do.bcos ultiimately she is the one ur gonna spend ur life with,but i dont say to hurt ur parents and their hopes,now they will be unhappy,bcos they r scred of how other person is gona treat u,but when u make a famiky have kids and they know u r ver happy with her/him,then they will bw happy too.ultimately what they want is ur happiness,no parents would likre to hurt teir children,but they want to assure ur happiness.but if u leave ur partner now u'll loose him/her forever,and what about the hopes u created to her and what about the promise.and if u leave him /her and marry another person u make four people unhappy.one is u ur gf/bf/and the person marrrying u and the person who marries ur gf/bf.so ultimately everyone is a looser.so try to mak eur parents understand or get married and give them sometime to adjust.everything will be allright.if time has wounded u,it will surely heal u.so be patient and think before u do something.ok
take cae of u and ur partner and both of ur parents.u nee to take care of th people u love even if they dont care for u.so be urself and explain the same to ur partner.byeeeeeeeeeeee.
chris
2006-08-02 12:41:50 · answer #4 · answered by BLR_DEHRADUN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the intensity of the dislike and relationship.
If it was completely unbearable, yea I would have my boyfriend talk to them and if they still didn't come around I'd leave.
But if the dislike was displayed with catty comments and overly sarcastic comments, I would definately stay and put up with it.
Yet if I was completely in love with the individual I wouldn't give a f**k what his parents thought
2006-08-02 12:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by vegasorbust1026 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's life is it anyway? Theirs or ya'lls? If the relationship is strong enough it shouldn't matter. Nor should you even have to ask. Of course, it depends on age too. If you're still young they might just be trying to do what they see is best for their child. Maybe getting together and trying to talk out the problem will help.
2006-08-02 12:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by anjelkitty33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. End it. If they are not supportive they will be nothing but destructive to your relationship. The tension will build and build. Do you think it's just going to stop one day?
I dated this hispanic girl in high school and her parents were completely racist. They didn't want their daughter dating a white boy, so after awhile I just got sick of it. Dumped her. Sure she was crushed, probably just F'd her up for life. At least mine is not F'd up and that is what you need to look at first.
2006-08-02 12:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by cannon1977 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ultimate test is the feedback and treatment you get from each other. If you can remain close and respectful to each other then continue to give each other comfort. If on the other hand, the happiness and fun deteriorate, then give yourselves a break and do what's best and move on.
2006-08-02 12:30:28 · answer #8 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When we were still dating, my husbands parents told him that they had seen me making out with other guys. (not true) they made it hard for us, but he honestly trusted me and thought that i was worth his time, so he stayed with me. If you really care about the person, then stay with them. Try to work through it. Just don't bad mouth the parents, because in the end that will make life harder and awkward for both of you if you stay together for a long time.. Things will work out in the end, if they are meant to.
2006-08-02 12:33:36 · answer #9 · answered by Cyndi Storm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess so if i can see that my boyfriend still wants to keep the relationship maybe we'll talk about it if we have reached the decision that my boyfriend is afraid to continue because of his parents id rather let go rather than wasting time have a good day
2006-08-02 12:32:58 · answer #10 · answered by cherryl a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Of course, it would be nice if they liked me, but if they didn't, in my opinion that's not a good enough reason to break up, it's how she feels that's most important. Similarly with my own parents and relatives, if any of them didn't like her for some incomprehensible reason, that wouldn't affect our relationship.
2006-08-02 12:31:26 · answer #11 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋