How should i punish my wife for talking to another man?
I used to hit her, but someone told me i shouldnt
2006-08-02 11:57:47 · 31 answers · asked by catfish_alomar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lilgracie: the man she was talking to WAS a counsellor
2006-08-02 12:03:21 · update #1
if she is you wife you should not seek revenge! you should search in you heart to see if she is worth putting up with, if she's stressing you to the point to hit her drop that ***** like like a bad habit!
2006-08-02 12:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by DUSTY 3 · 6⤊ 3⤋
Well "punishing" her isn't the answer or a question.
If she is only talking you shouldn't worry.
Yes, she is wrong... if, she was romantically talking to another man.
If you used to hit her or are even considering it now, than you are the one that needs help. You should talk to a therapist. They are none judgmental, they don't know you, and they can help you deal with your aggression and anger more effectively.
It sounds like the last thing that you want to do is push her away. You are supposed to be life partners. It's not right and you're not going to get the result that you want, if you try to punish her. She will only resent you and it will destroy your relationship.
I hope this helps:) Good Luck and Best Wishes!
2006-08-02 12:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess, you're from Texas, right? Maybe she was talking to another man because you're an abusive douchebag. If you actually hit your wife, you should learn that we're not living in the stone ages. Having you as a husband is punishment enough.
2015-12-15 09:43:09 · answer #3 · answered by Inkheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to punish your wife, talking to another man
is not a crime. If you want your relationship to work you MUST
trust her. Take it from me being married 15 yrs there is a lot of
give and take. Remember treat her the way you want to be treated. Hitting is a BAD idea!!
2006-08-02 12:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing. DON'T HIT YOUR WIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That is so horrible. Don't punish your wife. You are not her parent. She might be talking to other men becuase she either doesn't like you, or wants to talk to a man other than you. I can understand that. Be really nice and sweet to her. Love her. Because you are her husbund. Maybe if you love her, she will love you, and won't talk to other men. And if she does, thats alright to. You don't have a say in who she can talk to. She is a real person too.
2006-08-02 12:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by wormwoodkid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't u think talking to a person is a normal thing. Don't u ever talk to other womans. Think again ask Urself buddy is it right what ur doing.
I don't what's the actual reason u beating ur wife but if this the reason i believe u r wrong.
2006-08-02 12:06:36 · answer #6 · answered by Alan_at_rescue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talked how so? If it was jsut talking friendly why get so worked up? It depends on what manner it was. And punishing her?? Is she your child that she needs punishing?No. She is your wife. And you never hit a lady.
2006-08-02 12:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by ?Shannan? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being married to you is punishment enough. Oh yeah the answer don't give her sex sounds good, cause I know she will find it somewhere else and then she would be rid of you and with a real man.
2006-08-02 12:04:17 · answer #8 · answered by e_deckwa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You fool, only cowards hit woman. Why don't you just get divorced. That is not cool at all, she is not a child thatt you punish because she does something you don't like. No wonder she talked to another guy!!!!!!!
2006-08-02 12:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by tonya_jones29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u ******* *** hole why u hit your wife u damn abuser u need someone to help u cuz u dont know how to treat a lady and u mind as well leave her cuz u cant live with her if ur marrige got so bad to the point u hit her
2006-08-02 12:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.....being married to you is punishment enough for her. And her being stupid enough to put up w/ you, should be punishment enough for you. Might we all see both of you appearing on an upcoming episode of Jerry Springer?
2006-08-02 12:07:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋