2006-08-02 11:50:35 · 10 answers · asked by pablo mablo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am much younger than her
2006-08-02 11:56:58 · update #1
Be consistent about contact, so she remembers you and never brag about what you have. Money, weenie or otherwise. Be stoic and self assured and never brag. Let her wonder. Wear size 14 boots too. That will get her attention! LOL!
I have always had gorgeous men and after my divorce, I ran into a mechanic with a pretty tight body, a little thin, dirt under the nails of his huge, hard working hands, with a deep voice, thoughtful eyes, huge work boots, and a sense of humor...and he never made one pass at me and was always a gentleman. I knew him for months before I finally had to invite him over and I was not dissapointed. Yeehaw. He isn't what I would call drop dead gorgeous, in fact he looks really mean, but I gave him the chance with me and 8 years later, here we are, still in love. Folks, don't ever love someone for looks alone. You can fix anything on the body with cosmetic surgery...
But you cannot fix arrogant stupidity!
By the way, I am 44 and still very youthful looking, face and body and proud of it. He is nearing 50 and losing his hair but I am okay with that. Know what I mean. I love him more than anyone I have ever been with.
2006-08-02 11:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by sherijgriggs 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Generally speaking, younger women are into looks, older women are into money.
But women aren't into looks as much as men are. They want the "entire package". So it's okay if you're not handsome, as long as you excel in other areas. If you look neat and clean, and have an athletic body (basically look like you've put in an effort to maintain), then you're good enough in the looks department.
Edit: LOL at Pretty Lady's response... he had huge work boots -- that's why. Just kidding, couldn't resist, sorry.
2006-08-02 12:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by evil_clown_of_destruction 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really need more info. How old are you? How old is she? What exactly is the situation. Most older women (I'm 35) are attracted to what's on the inside of a person rather than the outside. So if you wonderful qualities about you then you should be "A OK". Best I can do with so little detail sweetie.
2006-08-02 12:04:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. You might say, "I see that men are always after you. You certainly are attractive, but I bet being chased all the time can get tiring. Want to have a cup of coffee with a guy that just wants to visit with you and not chase you?"
2006-08-02 11:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her feel like she is the most beautiful and wonderful woman on earth. You will start to look really good in her eyes.
It's all in how you make someone feel.
2006-08-02 11:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself as always. If 'you' are what she's looking for then she'll ofcourse come to you. Selling yourself short of anything other than being 'you' may get her attention at first, but it won't hold it.
2006-08-02 11:53:56 · answer #6 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality. And if you have to work so hard to be hers, it wont be worth it. Find someone who loves you for you. But personality can definitely sparks someone interest.
2006-08-02 11:54:40 · answer #7 · answered by Jasmine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personality! get to know her be friends first. looks are'nt everything it's how were treated. the hottest guys are often buttholes.
2006-08-02 12:23:32 · answer #8 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself,if she doesnt like it,you wouldnt want her anyway.
2006-08-02 12:00:57 · answer #9 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her your D#$%*
2006-08-02 11:53:45 · answer #10 · answered by moonlite1us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋