so we were together for two years and two months. it was somewhat my fault for the break-up and no, i did not do anything extremely bad too her. there was an incident (one and only ever) of mistrust. of course i did not want to break up, but i had to respect her decision. a year later i still think of her everyday. we don;t talk or see each other anymore because its hard pretending that everything is alright. i'm afraid that i'll never get over her. i do stuff everyday like work and run and habg out with friends, but she still runs across my ind all the time. what now?
2006-08-02 11:32:35 · 6 answers · asked by J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look, I think you two should give it another try. That's if only she doesn't have a boyfriend and still loves you. I think you should first talk to her, kind of ask her about her life, if she has a boyfriend, what plans does she have...but don't make it too obvious that you want to know if she's in a relationship. If she is and she sounds pretty happy, then brother let her go.. there's a saying" let her go and if she returns, she was met for you, but if she doesn't, she was never yours." So let her fly and let's home she come back to you, or life brings you back together. Mean while keep distracting youself and don't prohibit yourself from meeting new people, because maybe you haven't found the love of your life yet. So first talk to her, then do what I had suggested. I wish you the best of luck!!
2006-08-02 11:42:00 · answer #1 · answered by Maria A 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why is it that you have NOT contacted her and told her this ?
Please do yourself a favor and do it... my bf now and I did the same thing... broke up... were still very much in love with each other... and stayed apart for 7 years... we both went on with our lives married and everything... and now we are back together and all it took was us talking again... and here we are 2.5 years later... still very much in love and planning to marry.... and we SOO wish we would have called each other before 7 years... we could have had a family together by now if we had...
good luck
2006-08-02 18:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by nknicolek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have some form of closure. Either write a letter saying how you feel and either send it to her or keep it. While you're writing say the words out loud to yourself that you are closing this chapter of your life and need to move on. It's not healthy to hold on mentally this long. Have you even attempted to date again yet? I think it's time to see there's other women and search for your true soul mate. Take your time and really get to know them as friends with true compatibility before even considering making things serious.
2006-08-02 18:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by eehco 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know same thing here but we broke up about 2 years ago he got marry now and he leaves 5min away from my house he crosses my mind every day and obviously i do too because he asked about me not to long ago a friend of ours told me but to be honest with you time is the most value thing that's going to be your friend, and that's going to make you help forget about her just time meeting other girls, too. As for me i dont have the same feelings no more but i do think of him sometimes just wish her the best in life u never know shell give you a call one of this day hey!!!! he did about a week ago. take ker good luck!!!!!!!
2006-08-02 18:43:13 · answer #4 · answered by issa r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personaly beleive that true love never dies. You have to ask your question even though you love her. Would a relationship with her be beneficial. if not then its better to have loved and lost. Move onif you have to. it wont kill you.
2006-08-02 18:36:30 · answer #5 · answered by Maestro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its been a year..and she has apparently moved on. i suggest you do the same.
2006-08-02 18:37:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋