im 29 and lonely and every love song that comes on the radio makesme cry because i long for a girl ?

Question

and someone to love, but i dont feel worthy of anyone. and im worry ing to right now, i wanna emmegrate to the usa, find a nice us girl/woman settle down on a ranch, the uk is not my home, i dont want to stay here. but how can my dream happen when im already nearlly 30 and i dont work and i battle anger and metal health probs? and say if my dreams never ' come ' true say if i never find anyone to love me?

and im looking more and more like an old guy each day, i dont no if its all the stress over the years

Answer 1

I think your fear of not finding your "a love" is a fear that many people have. Perhaps you should think about the good things in you have in life rightnow. Everyone has problems and dislikes about oneselves....I feel you should think seriously about what you have accomplished so far in your life. Trust me, if you are alive, have food on your table, and a roof over your head....try not to wory so much. There are too many problems in the world for us to be constantly worrying about finding "the right person". She will come to you eventually. She is out there. And thirty? Thirty is not old. What are you talking about? I live in the USA....and most guys overhere your age are scared of commitment at age 30. Slow down, enjoy the good things in life, work for your dreams but with out worrying too much. You only live once remember? Its not like you have another chance to come back....thats it ...one life that is all you get. So make the best out of it.
See a doctor about your mental/anger problems but know that you have to be happy with yourself first before trying to make someone else happy.....like a woman. If you want someone to love, how about loving yourself?

Answer 2

You poor guy, I feel sorry for you. Why not try placing an ad on Yahoo! Personals? I think you need to get more done around the house too like mowing the lawn, gardening, taking out the trash, doing some dishes or laundry, changes cat's litter box if you have any, stuff like that. Some chores would help you feel productive and occupy more of your time so you can't dwell on bad things as much.

Also you should exercise. A lot of people don't work out because when they get home from work they don't have the energy to work out with heavy weights. If you get cut and defined I'm sure the ladies would take notice.

Edit: Actually, I've been thinking about it the past hour or so, do this instead. Most communities have an activities center. Where I live there's one right down the street, could walk there in 15 minutes. Sign up for some activities whether its like a wood shop or a home economics or some aerobics and start meeting people. If you meet gentlemen then they might be able to hook you up with an ex-girlfriend, or maybe you'll meet some women.

Answer 3

Ok
One problem at a time

- 29 and lonely
- Ok is that really a problem????

- every love song that comes on the radio makesme cry
- well stop listening love songs on the radio

- dont feel worthy of anyone
- beleive, there are thousands of people that are less worthy of you, so stop feeling so down.

- wanna emmegrate to the usa
- for a good start, might be good to learn how to write their language.

- the uk is not my home, i dont want to stay here
- then where is your home??

- how can my dream happen when im already nearlly 30
- the same way, it can happen when you are nearly 37, or nearly 53, by trying to do it

- dont work
- try getting a job

Answer 4

IM way to young for you but to answer your question stay in the UK because you have a better chance there than in the US unless you speak perfect english come here. But just stay there till the war is over. Damn afganistanians. But also fix your anger problem. Talk to a friend get your life back on track and get a job. And right know america is going through some problems with immigrants,so some people will be mean.Sorry to say this but love comes last.

Answer 5

Try hanging out in places with the same type of people. People wiht mental health problems such as yourself. They are the most likley to understand you.
As far as age, my husband was 33 when we married.

I have no idea how you would get into the U.S. My brain doens't think that well. But you need more self esteem. Try seeing a counselor first. And I have absolutely no idea what the UK offers. You would have to do a web search on that one. But no one will love you till you love yourself. Wehn you get your feelings under control go to a group therpay or something where there are others with mental health problems too.. The right one will come.. I PROMISE>

Answer 6

Get out and meet people. Go to places that you have an interest in and your bound to meet someone with the same interests. Take some courses at your local community college, get a part time job, find a support group, do something. Sitting home feeling sorry for yourself is not going to help you.

Answer 7

You need to speak to a counselor. You're ONLY 29 and you don't have a partner yet.......that means she is right around the corner. Move to USA and find your woman and settle down. Actually you can find her right in UK then both of you move to USA. You're way too hard on yourself handsome! Relax and when you aren't looking your dream woman will come into your life. :)))

Answer 8

you sound like you're looking for happiness in a lot of things you can't control. work on being happy and content with what you have and where you are. i promise you that merely finding a girl, or moving, or having a ranch will not make you happy in the long run.

Answer 9

Stop being so down on yourself. There's someone for EVERYBODY, including you. You deserve to be happy just as much as anyone. So stop being sad, move to the US, and find that girl, handsome!

Answer 10

quit being emo