2006-08-02 11:08:13 · 31 answers · asked by Rainbow 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
You should be angry at them both. You were in fact betrayed by 2 people who professed to care about you. I do know how you feel. This happened to me when I was in the 8th grade. She was my best friend. He was older and should have known better. He was in high school after all. I never could forgive either of them. Now I look back on it and I don't feel quite as bad. My seeing them made me realize that she was not a true friend and he was not to be trusted. It made it easier for me to move on and find someone who really did care. You know what's funny. I can't even remember her name anymore. She lost more than I did that day. She lost a good friend and I found out about a betrayer.
Good luck to you. You will find people who really do care about you. Have faith in yourself.
2006-08-02 11:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by just me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Both Of Them. It Takes Two To Tangle. Their Lips Didn't Just Bump Into One-Another. Maybe This Was Going On For Awhile Now.
2006-08-02 11:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by Cas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
specific couple cases in my first marriage, strangers met at artwork which became a convenience shop and the different at a bar on a looking holiday and that i regretted the two cases besides the actuality that it remained a secret. My regrets nicely i did no longer like the sensation after of being cheating to my spouse besides the actuality that she cheated additionally which I did locate out approximately yet that wasn't the reason for our divorce. human beings do advance aside and we've been married so youthful and not in any respect had a raffle to be with absolutely everyone else so i think of while the marriage began going south is while issues got here approximately for the two one individuals. Im engaged now which could be my third marriage, will I ever cheat back on no account, i visit be certain which you do carry my very own even however i think of my fiancee has cheated already I merely cant instruct it. so a approaches as walking down the isle back, nicely that continues to be to be considered, i think of Im going to push for an prolonged engagement to verify if she will and could be genuine to me.
2016-10-01 09:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF, and this is IF it looked like a mutual type kiss, meaning they were both kissing each other then I'd be equally mad at BOTH of them. But if I saw one trying to pull away, (and this is only if they had NOT seen me) then I would be mad with the aggressor. And yes I would most likely not see that person or both ever again. So I hope they had fun.
2006-08-02 11:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anger at both of them is justified. The relationship with them both is over.
He should have been man enough to tell you he was interested in dating others most specifically your best friend. He wasn't, thus making him not worth your time to work things out, should he try to reconcile with you.
As for your "best friend", she has violated one of the most basic rules of life that has been in existence since the dawn of time, practically. No one should ever date, or otherwise affiliate themselves with the significant other, or ex-significant other. The reason being is because it ultimately be the end of that friendship in question.
Here is my opinion on what you should do now. If you have not already done so, you need to end your relationship with both people. Do not do it out of anger, and do not say ugly things to either of them. Let them know what you saw. Let them know while it will take you a while to get over it, you will get over it and be better off in the long run. Remember to always take the moral high road.
2006-08-02 11:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by bowtierodz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both, but I think I'd be more hurt by the best friend. Boyfriends come and go, but friends are supposed to stick by each other.
2006-08-02 11:45:14 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriend--your best friend just proved herself by pointing out what a jerk your boyfriend is at her own expense. That said, you can't trust either of them, so ditch them both and stick with friends you CAN trust.
2006-08-02 11:19:53 · answer #7 · answered by M L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both.
However, "Sisters before Misters and Bros before Hos"... so the best friend would take the brunt of my anger, all things being equal.
2006-08-02 11:19:30 · answer #8 · answered by girlnblack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both
2006-08-02 11:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both, but probably my friend more so. She is supposed to "have my back" and not go after my boyfriend. She is no friend at all and I would never associate with her again. She's untrustworthy.
2006-08-03 18:35:09 · answer #10 · answered by Samba Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋