I've been on both sides of this question. And I still don't understand how "forever" turns into ****. I've just been dumped and I feel those " i'm in a hole and I can't get out feelings". I can't believe my girl's with her pretty,pretty boys she calls friends. It hurts,,,alot. But when I do it, I think nothing of it. WHat's wrong with the whole human race?. Why do we even say" i love you", and "the one and only". Even if couples are together forever. Each one still WANTS to have sex with other people. Don't kid yourself, your wife , or husband too. So I need some wise answers. I've lost hope.
2006-08-02 10:57:20 · 7 answers · asked by marco b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No married for 10 years people answers,lol.
2006-08-02 11:10:49 · update #1
the old saying before you can love someone else you have to love yourself is an absolute truth.many times what we percieve as love is actually an attachment.we base our selfworth on being loved by someone else.we then surrender the way we feel about ourselves to another person.when we do this we have lost control and struggle with a sense of powerlessness.most people will enjoy that kind of power for a while then flee from it and the responsibilty that goes with it.we may have been having sex but we were needing to be loved.avoid all forms of attachments.learn some things from your experience and about yourself.a healthy relationship is one that enriches the lives of each person in it and is completely free of attachments.when we learn to love and accept ourselves, others will stand in line to be apart of the wonderful person that we will surely be.
2006-08-02 11:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by ronny d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to disagree. I have been married for 10 years and have never once thought of cheating. I adore my husband. I know for a fact that he feels the same way about me. People just tend to give up when the going gets a little rough. A lot of times it is just lack of communication. I would rather lose my life than lose my husband. I find myself extremely lucky to have a relationship like this and I hope one day you can too.
2006-08-02 11:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people don't think twice when they step on a person's heart, but it is the most horrific thing in the world when it happens to them.
You broke up with people because you "just weren't that into them"
Your ex was "just not that into you"
Hazzards of dating.
Love is an easily tossed around word.
2006-08-02 11:06:16 · answer #3 · answered by Shanan D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason why one person is carefree upon a break where the other person is miserable is because one person has moved on, while the other person has not or he or she feels they will not find anyone else in their lives.
2006-08-02 11:02:42 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 20:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that 1 person that is miserable is cause they sit and ponder around...thinkin bout stupid s***...
2006-08-02 11:01:58 · answer #6 · answered by jaxxie1982 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask it again.
2006-08-02 11:01:27 · answer #7 · answered by pwithers12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋