me and my ex boyffiend started out as close friends even though we both liked each other. well we finally started going out and we fell in love with each. we were each others first love. we stayed together 2yrs. and we lost our virginities to each other we been through every thing together every time we would breakup we would get right back together. my brother died a couple months ago and he stayed right by myside even though we were brokeup. me and this we did every thing together. He has asked me back out several times but i tried playing hard to get. and i still love him very much but we dont even talk no more and it hurts he tells his family he still loves me and that im still his baby but when we talk on the phone we seem like two complete strangers. he act like he dont love me n e more. he use to bad in school and wen we hooked up all that changed and now that we are brokeup he has went back to his old ways. what should i do?? i still love him very much.
2006-08-02 10:47:54 · 7 answers · asked by breyauna s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love him so much, why don't you take him back? Forget about the past and try to be more mature in the relationship. Don't break up over nonsense reasons because they are not good reasons to shut it down. That's deep what he says about you to his family. You have become something special and meaningful to him. He has also changed his habits because of you. Probably the reason he acts different by phone is because he's hurt. It could be that he doesn't want to show you emotions. I don't know, what do you think? You're the one that knows him. You both should talk about personally. See where you both went wrong or either one. Try to find a solution to it. Learn from eachother's mistakes. This will make you both wiser. Maybe all you need is to talk to him. You can give it a try, and see what happens. If you both decide to get back together, make sure you both don't break up for a foolish reason. That doesn't drive the relationship anywhere. It just goes in circles or worse. I wish you my very best. Good Luck, girl!
2006-08-02 11:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still love him, why are you playing hard to get? he obviously still loves you, but all males are proud and dont like to keep getting denied if you keep saying no then he's gonna stop asking, just hurry up and get back together you' s are good for each other.
2006-08-02 10:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by dezire_nz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, get back together with him! It will change when you talk on the phone next time if you date him! He's desprate don't make him chase that much. You two make a great couple now get him back!
2006-08-02 10:59:12 · answer #3 · answered by alcdances4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damnit, that's a perfect example of why you don't play hard to get. Whatever feeling of superiority you get while getting on a guy's nerves or crushing his patience is flooded by what happens later. Take this as a lesson.
2006-08-02 10:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shudnt play hard to get with a guy who already had u. and if u guys really love each other than it will work out ur gona have to work at it and it will b hard
2006-08-02 10:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as cheezy as it may sound, follow your heart. Only you truly know what's best for you.
2006-08-02 10:53:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what u just told us...
2006-08-02 10:52:30 · answer #7 · answered by lizlatina69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋