when it comes to relationships you know you HAVE to move on..yet your heart doesn't respond. WHY??? does anybody know??
2006-08-02 10:44:45 · 10 answers · asked by Too nice for my own good 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are hurt. The heart and mind get wounded just like the body except the difference is is that you can't see it or bandage it. You have to give it time.
You can't force your heart to heal but you can prevent it from staying hurt by taking care of yourself, trying not to dwell on this person, forgiving yourself, and just eating and exercising right.
Give it time...it's taken me a year to get over the last guy who hurt me. I look back and can see how awful the healing process was; wishing that I had a bullet wound more than a broken heart. AT least a bullet wound would heal in time....but my broken heart....well, it's just painful.
I feel for you. Just decide you are moving forward. And you may have to decided that every five minutes at first. But in time, it'll get less and less frequent. Just protect your heart next time.
2006-08-02 10:50:07 · answer #1 · answered by lindakb24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because either you or the person you are with haven't gotten over it yet or still have feelings for each other. Especailly if the relationship was a marriage at it lasted a number of years.
2006-08-02 17:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. I would like to know the answer too. But it might be because deep inside we fear that we're not gonna find someone else who loves us, or that we won't be able to love anyone as we did in the past, so we cling to the person or the relationship that meant so much to us.
2006-08-02 17:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by interpreters_are_hot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my case, it was a fear of never being loved. And feeling that I'd always be alone. But that was because of the head games my ex played. Now I am very happy and have been for 16 years with a new man.
2006-08-02 17:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people don't like change and fear the unknown. They would rather stay in an unhappy relationship than risk a new one.
2006-08-02 17:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you put a lot of effort into the relationship and you hate to fail - so you can't believe that it's done.
something like that.
2006-08-02 17:49:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's because its too hard to get your heart to do what your head wants to do.
Give it some time, eventually it will get easier.
2006-08-02 17:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too attached. You need to break free from this attachment. Keep on trying......
2006-08-02 17:49:18 · answer #8 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it may take me a little while but I will get there believe me!!!!!
2006-08-02 17:49:47 · answer #9 · answered by wancarol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope...ask Dr. Phil..he may know
2006-08-02 17:48:21 · answer #10 · answered by jaxxie1982 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋