I watch my nephew for my brother. We had a conversation about his bride to be and some of the things that I did not agree with. Well, I no longer watch my nephew, my brother and I are no longer talking. This happened two weeks ago. He is now acting like nothing ever happened. I am not the type to forgive and forget that quick. Not only did he screw me out of seeing my nephew, he screwed me out of $100 every week. Do I let this go, suck it up and go to the wedding or say F*** it and not go? My three kids were going to be it the wedding also. Do I still allow them to be?
2006-08-02 10:42:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You brother is trying to let bygones be bygones in his own warped way.
Go to the wedding, be a part of his big day, let things ride, and deal with it all after the wedding.
2006-08-02 10:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by treday25 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to work out your anger before making a decision about going to the wedding. Forgiveness is divine and, in the long run, will ensure that you have a continuing relationship with your brother. Also, your children are probably looking forward to being in the wedding. If you go, do not go mad. No one needs to have negative, angry energy at a wedding. It is the bride and groom's day and if you can't be happy for them, and loving towards them, it's better to stay home.That said, you need to tell your brother, in a calm manner, how you feel about what happened. And please stop using profanity. Set an example for your children and for your nephew. Do the right thing.
2006-08-02 18:27:55 · answer #2 · answered by Isabella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go to the wedding and later talk it over with your brother, if you are still angry. However, even if you decide not to go, this has nothing to do with your kids who are looking forward to participating in the wedding, so regardless of what you do you should let them be in the wedding.
2006-08-02 18:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by marij 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely go to your brothers wedding you will never forgive your self later down the road if you don't go. Just think of how many quarrels yous have had over the years and you know you still love him so don't hurt him and don;t hurt yourself by not going . Blood is thicker than water . Stay mad if you want but go
2006-08-02 17:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You & your brother need to talk and hash out the issues before your kids get involved in the wedding. Sounds like it could be a fiasco.
2006-08-02 17:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by girlfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should still go and definitely let your kids be in the wedding - just because you are pissed off at your brother does not mean your kids are.
2006-08-02 17:49:22 · answer #6 · answered by thersa33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go to the wedding if you believe in and support the marriage. If you do not you should not attend.
Good luck!
2006-08-02 17:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont want something like this, that you're going to get over eventually to prevent you from going to his wedding.....it's only gonna happen once! (well, hopefully! ;-))
2006-08-02 22:57:14 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suck it up and go
you chose to have that conversation about his bride
2006-08-02 18:24:14 · answer #9 · answered by Library Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋