2006-08-02 10:39:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At this point (if they don't care) It is not about how they feel anymore. This is up to you to heal your heart and move on. Life is short and the decisions you make are critical. If you believe you need more time to wonder why this person doesn't care...go ahead...BUT if you are tierd of feeling unappreciated and unloved then it is time for you to face the music...this person is not for you. Once again, its up to you.
Dr. Gates
2006-08-02 10:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by cgates20 1 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Are you absolutely sure she doesnt care? Are you sure she doesnt love you? Are you positive that there is nothing left? What did you do to make her not care? Did you do something? These are all questions you need to ask yourself. If she really truely loves you....she will come around. She might be dealing with things that are hurting her. You never know unless you ask.
2006-08-02 17:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they don't care, why do you? What benefit to you to allow someone to rent space in your head and your heart for free? Are you sure it's love for them, or just missing what you lost?
You just have to make up your mind that you're going to move on...and now continue to allow yourself to feel bad over something you cannot control (other people's feelings)...
2006-08-02 17:43:38 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love someone that doesn't love you? True love is a two way street. If he/she doesn't care, then you shouldn't either. Stop dwelling and get on with your life!
2006-08-02 17:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by harleychic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that. It's one of the hardest things you will ever do. But you have to learn to let it go and give your heart time to heal. Best of Luck.
2006-08-02 17:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself time to heal. Then, when you are ready, ask your best friends to introduce you to someone new.
Best wishes!
from a grandma-aged person
2006-08-02 17:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by PeggyS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to face the fact that the person was "just not that into you" and move on.
2006-08-02 17:44:21 · answer #7 · answered by Shanan D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else who does care.
2006-08-02 17:42:45 · answer #8 · answered by lukn4sumpn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use drugs and alcohol to help me forget - seems to be working.
2006-08-02 17:43:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a mask that he/she is putting on. If it was a long and meaningful relationship, he/she's probably not completely over it.
2006-08-02 17:42:57 · answer #10 · answered by LTD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋