this guy i am with lives in scotland but he is willing to move over here and be with me. i love him and care for him, been with him for a year. we get along and such.
but recently i've been giving this temptations to be with other guys. like i do have guy friends but i don't feel anything towards them but as friends. so i know i don't want to go out and cheat on him.
but their is a certain guy i have been talking too online and even on the phone, but just as friends. he knows i have a bf. but i'm starting to have second thoughts?
i don't anyone to think badly of me, cause i havent' gone out and slept with anyone yet i know this is just as bad.
now my question is. is god or faith just tempting me to see what i will do? or is my heart and head telling me this isn't the right relationship i should be with my bf. i'm not even sure when he's coming over either to live.
i'm being patient, but when is it enough?
i just like some advice, no judgement on me please.
2006-08-02 10:38:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once you start having second thoughts about your relationship that means somethings , that 'a when you're not happy , you should think this whole thing thought and ask herself do you really wanna be this guy? Do you really care and love him ,obviously you don't because u are now having second thoughts and that's okay , nothing is wrong with that . we need to do what 's best for us.especially when you 're not even sure if he is going to move or not.
2006-08-02 10:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by princess11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking about other people and having second thoughts about your bf, it sounds to me like you are not ready to make a commitment to one person. Being apart doesn't matter. There are people in the service who have to be apart for along time but are still true to each other. It seems like you are fairly young and you should not tie yourself down until you mature. Just my opinion though.
2006-08-02 10:47:07 · answer #2 · answered by 4HIM- Christians love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i thibnk it all depends on how much you love this guy cause if you are having 2nd thoughts you dont love him as much as you are telling your self you do ... so if the temptaion gets any stronger my advice to you is tell him you guys arent guna work out
2006-08-02 10:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your instinct, your first instinct
2006-08-02 10:44:17 · answer #4 · answered by LB James 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋