I'm 20 years old and I believe she is the one. We have been in a long distance relationship for months, and we've also been bf and gf in the past. I'm am about to move to the city she lives in, even though I hate the city she lives in. She's has dumped me a few times before. I guess I'm not the best boyfriend ever because I'm not very smart, and I frustrate the hell out of her quite often. I love her, and she loves me. She's an amazing girl, and I don't want to hurt her again. She can do a lot better than me. Do I stay with her, and keep doing my best, or am I just waisting her time?
2006-08-02 10:30:35 · 17 answers · asked by Rogi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If this is Rogi Perogi then you should know that I love you more than anything. You're my home, ***; so why ask these people what we should do? I know calling you pet names may be embarrassing and I can do some other things that you don't like, but at the end of the day, I know we love each other. Jeez this sounds like a movie or something! Some who answered this said that I'm playing games with you by breaking up with you over and over. It's not a game. I was hurting, and I couldn't deal then. We've grown up; we're still growing up. I love watching you grow up with me. Don't listen to that pr*ck of a spinless wimp who said to drown yourself. He's jealous we've found something that he doesn't even know the start of.
2006-08-02 15:24:55 · answer #1 · answered by sam 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sound like she should be with you except for one part: you said she could do better than you.
If you two belong together then nobody could take care of the other better. Maybe just as good but not better.
So either throw that defeatest attitude out the window or let the loved one go find her prince charming, becuase most woman don't want a man that thinks he is not enough.
2006-08-02 17:36:24 · answer #2 · answered by John G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are wasting your own time. If she has dumped you a few times, why would you pick up and move closer to her? Don't do it, atleast not now, give it some time. If your mentality is that she can do better than you, you should probably do some work to better yourself.
2006-08-02 17:34:53 · answer #3 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, tell her that you love her and that you are willing to move to be with her. That says alot, but tell her that you do not want the move to be a mistake. You want to be with her. Ask her to marry you or at least for a serious commitment. Tell her your true feelings- just as you told us. Good luck to you.
2006-08-02 17:37:41 · answer #4 · answered by texasgirl5454312 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to work on you before you can be any good in a relationship. If you really believe that she can do better than you, than you need to get to where you have alot more confidence in what you have to offer anyone...before you get involved with her or anyone else.
No one wants to be responsible for your feelings or self-worth. So, you have to work on feeling good about what you have to offer.
So, why don't you work on you...stay friends...and see how it goes?
2006-08-02 17:37:08 · answer #5 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with here. You may think your hurting her but if you leave her it might end up hurting her more.If she is tired of being hurt she will let you know but since she keeps coming back that has to be a good sign.
2006-08-02 17:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by BBG4blondeBabyGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is feel confident about yourself!
She obviously LOVES you! You guys need to work on improving your relationship, so you don't frustrate her...
2006-08-02 18:06:57 · answer #7 · answered by magerk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she keeps breaking up with you, do you think it's such a great idea to move to be with her. She doesn't sound like a very good girlfriend if you ask me.
2006-08-02 17:34:47 · answer #8 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep holding on, BUT next time she breaks up with you do NOT go back out with her. (If she keeps doing that breakup get back together thing she is just playen games & whether your a girl or guy its sooooooo wrong to play games!) ^_^ hope I was helpfull! sorry if I was not :( ^_^
2006-08-02 17:38:33 · answer #9 · answered by Arry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me that you are willing to give it your all and if I were her I wouldn't consider you wasting her time. If she loves you then doing your best will be good enough for her.
2006-08-02 17:35:10 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋