My friend was about to have an abortion today, but just found out they're having twins. What should I do?

Answer 1

Advise your friend not to abort her children, and do what you can to help save the lives of two innocent babies. Share this information with her/them:

Photos of Abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html

A Four-Minute, Must-See Video on Abortion:
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html

Information on All Aspects of Abortion:
http://Abort73.com

Photos and Facts About Prenatal Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm
http://www.lifeissues.org/ultrasound/11weeks.htm

Pain Perception in the Unborn:
http://www.advocatesfortheinnocent.com/fetalpain.html

Abortion Stories:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-G-2-testimony.html

Abortion Risks:
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
http://www.standupgirl.com/site/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=218&Itemid=40

Abortion Deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm

Free, Confidential Pregnancy Help (including referrals for financial, medical, legal, and housing assistance; free ultrasounds; free maternity and baby supplies; pregnancy, parenting, and adoption information; counseling and emotional support):
http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp

Support for Pregnant Teens:
http://standupgirl.com/site/index.php

Support for Pregnant College and Career Women:
http://www.nurturingnetwork.org

Answer 2

You could offer to adopt the babies. You could help the parents look into adoption.

I really don't see why it would change anything if they were having one baby or two. Two babies arn't easier or cheaper to raise than one.

But mabie guilt came into play?

All babies are sweet, beautiful gifts. I'd recommend adoption over abortion no matter what. Research options and help her see them.

Then offer your support and encouragement: whatever she decides.

And mabie let her know that they can sterilize a woman in the dr's office now, no surgery. It's covered by most insurance companies and medicaid will pay for it.

Answer 3

i would have to say that yes it is your friends decision and you should stand by her in whatever she does, but something that you might want to advise her to do is think about the future of the babies if she goes thru with the abortion she will never get to meet them, never get to see their eyes, their nose, their cheeks, or see who they resemble. I think of how my niece was almost an abortion and now i can picture life without her here.

Answer 4

I dont think you should say anything at all.It is up to them what they want to do.But me,I wouldnt have a abortion.Those babies are a gift from god and the mother should be happy that she was blessed with 2.There are some women that cant have kids.I hope that your friend thinks about what she is going to do.Good Luck and Best wishes to her.

Answer 5

Keep one, and throw one away! Same thing right! Hey why does twins make any difference, you don't want them anyway, you'll just be an abuser, hell pitch em both!

Answer 6

Learn from the experience, unless you wish to find yourself in a similar position.

Answer 7

unless your involved either the mom or dad keep your 1 cents out of it its something the couple needs to discuss by themselves,and if you are one or the other talk about

Answer 8

attemp to discourage her from it...tie her to a chair if need be. but if no matter what you say to her, she goes ahead with it, be there to support her. and i say that with much thought, as i do not personally approve of abortions

Answer 9

nuthin juss support her, nd after the abortion too
make her feel happy nd confortable i mean ur her friend

Answer 10

support her in whatever decision she makes no matter how you feel about it. It should not be up to you what another person does about their private life