Let's face it chaps. Most of us are pretty straight forward and we know what we want- A pretty girl, good friends and life is wonderful. However, there is a dark side....called "women" who harass and extort and manipulate and play with emotions. Unfortunately we are not immune to this and sometimes become drawn into these female shennanigans. Can you help, what should we do to counter this evil? Answers on a postcard.........
Viking xxx
2006-08-02 10:14:37 · 24 answers · asked by Viking 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
most of the girls that are like that have been royally screwed over by a guy in the past and they're getting even.
I don't say it's right, but at some point most people take their past relationships out on the person they're currently seeing. Sorry.
2006-08-02 10:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by banshee 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They do it because they CAN, and it makes them feel good about themselves to have such power. Unfortunately, it's hard to tell who they are on forst approach. Also, they are usually VERY pretty, and guys lose all sense of reason. I don't know what the solution is.
I fell for this nonsense a while back. A really attractive woman became my best friend (I'm gay, but still male, so I was taken in by her...). Now we don't speak, and probably never will. I did my share of manipulating, I admit - but she was manipulative and spoiled beyond belief.
So beware when attractive women are really really "nice." It's usually too good to be true.
After that experience, I have been wary, and I usually ignore such b itches when they lay it on thick. That makes them really mad -HAHAHA.
Love, Jack
2006-08-02 11:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth is she is not going to play straight up because most of you guys aren't playing straight up anyways. I play with my boyfriend all the time to see exactly where his head and heart is at. He does the same to me too. Matter of fact we spent a whole 2 months basically playing russian roulette with each other lives. I just think that sometimes games are necessary if she doesn't play games with you then she is being too serious or easy. If she does plav games with you. Most of you guys are turned on by the thrill and the chase of it all. Most of you like it anyways because if she is too needy then there is a problem if she is not needy enough there is another problem she is left with no other choice but to play games. All I can say is "May the Best Man Win."
2006-08-02 10:23:03 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Revea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think that if guys could crack the code they wouldn't get invovled in the shennanigans you refer to?
You will never know the secrets so don't ask!
2006-08-02 10:19:43 · answer #4 · answered by beachbum92626 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps instead of looking for a pretty girl, you should look for a good woman.
You're smart enough to look for good friends. Why you describe your significant other primarily as pretty I think is the crux of your situation.
2006-08-02 10:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by John G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems like everyone plays "the game" and it's BS...if I like a guy, I WILL call and will ask him out..I'm not gonna sit around and ponder "hmmm...will he think I am annoying if I call him 2 days in a row?"...screw it..that's me..if he doesn't like it, then he won't like me. I am not gonna pretend to be someone I am not..even if the person I am people don't like!!!! I HATE GAMES!!
2006-08-02 10:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
looks fade but a full heart never dies so when you find a person its the little things what make you full in love not what do my mates think or i want this and that but the answer is what do we have together
2006-08-02 12:03:42 · answer #7 · answered by vincent r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a girl is manipulating and so on, she isn't right for you. some girls won't be so complicated. don't slap them like mr.sexist over there talked about. just don't give them any time. cuz i hate bitchy girls too. and i'm a straight girl.
2006-08-02 10:20:34 · answer #8 · answered by BetneyJane;) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u like her play along . if not stay far away fm tis type . if u don't play u don't get any . if u play u might learn a thing or two fm her . but plz don't keep her . then u will b safe .
2006-08-02 15:51:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its something that is a part of all women, normally comes out when you have hacked them off.
play the game to a point, but once your head starts hurting ditch them.
2006-08-02 10:54:03 · answer #10 · answered by chunky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋