He tells me he is going to come see me and everything but he never shows up ... I always ask him why he does not show up and he always has a lame excuse that he got pulled over and I ran out of gas ... but then i find out he was in town n-e ways with his friends .... I have told him that if he keeps it up I am going to break up with him .... But he still does it anyways ... i have no idea what I should do .. Talken to him aint geting any where cause he just dont seem to care .... But i cant deal with it anymore but I dont want to lose him cause I am madly in love with him ...
2006-08-02 10:13:29 · 10 answers · asked by dumbblonde200508 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know your in love with him and I know how hard this is going to be but break up with him! I went through a similar situation and if you break up with him he will totally realize what he had and miss you like crazy. I did it and now him and i have been together for like a year and its awesome. He realize that what he has is great and babe I know its hard and it's going to suck until he realizes it but its the best thing for you. You really dont need his sh** I PROMISE!
2006-08-02 10:21:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how to tell you this but honey he doesn't want to be with you anymore. Sometimes someone is chicken to end a relationship so they just avoid the whole thing, instead of being man or women about it. Him saying he will come over and then not showing up is a lack of interest. He is begging that you be the one to break up with him (because he is chicken Sh!t). So what you need to do is plan a night out with you girls and invite him over and if he calls you say Oh I forgot I'm out with my friends. Then maybe you can add on that your not really interested in him. Now I know your all in love with him and blah blah blah but that is what he wants because then he knows that he has you on his short little string. While your at home waiting for him, you can't be out and about seeing what he is doing with other people, possibilly other women. So cut your loose and find yourself a man that wants to hang out with you.
Oh yeah my bf now one night was supposed to come over and never showed up. I beyond pissed!! He did call me. He said that he was at his friends house and time just flew by. But we talked about it and lets just say he hasn't done it since then because he knows that he truley hurt me and doesn't want to do that again. So my point is once you tell someone that they hurt you in that way if they really do care about you then they will make sure they don't do it again. If they do then you should start to question your relationship. Good Luck!
2006-08-02 10:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he seeing someone and not seeing you... If it was me and knowing that you madly in love with me and I would do anything to get there. If I said I will see you friday and I will make sure I show up if no gas no ride nothing I start walking wed to get there fri. thta how much I would do for you.
Sad that he didn't see that you are in madly in love with him? Man I wish you pick me. smiling. But really you will find better guy treat you better than this. smile.
2006-08-02 10:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set a threshold for the no. of times he does it mentally.If he crosses that number, just break up with him!
2006-08-02 10:19:43 · answer #4 · answered by Arvind C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Threat's don't mean nothin' unless you do. if you say 'do it agin and i'll break up with you, " then mean it. Break up with the jerk. See how fast he comes begging to your door.!
2006-08-02 10:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by NY Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, he's ballz-deep in some other tramp!!!!!
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-08-02 10:18:41 · answer #6 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UR better than that kick him to the curb! good luck...
2006-08-02 10:21:41 · answer #7 · answered by lexiree733 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you fine
2006-08-02 10:17:41 · answer #8 · answered by Peace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIND ANOTHER BOY
2006-08-02 10:22:58 · answer #9 · answered by russellmcmillen1947 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blonde ..... dump him ....... for me
2006-08-02 10:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by ibrushallday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋