well my boyfriend leaves me in his room while he comes and talks on the computer and then he looks at porn and jacks off to it and then he get acts different around me when he gets done looking at porn and i dont know what to do
2006-08-02 10:06:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweetie I am sorry to say this but here it goes. Once a porn addict always a porn addict. My husband has struggled with porn since we got married seven years ago and though the road is smoother, it still gets very bumpy at times. The first step to healing is admitting the problem and it doesn't look like he aknoledges his problem yet. If you truely care for him then stand by him but if not then you should let him go because the pain and rejecting that you will experience is far worse then the pain of breaking up. Good luck.
2006-08-02 10:17:59 · answer #1 · answered by Amy A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are visual creatures, porn is a visual stimulation.
I occasionally watch porn, as a spice, I fantasize about myself being in there, and so does my wife. Sometime we watch together.
This all depends on a number of things, he may want sex more often than you, and this is his escape, or he can use it to reduce his stress levels. (I do this on the occasion, it does help, but I also have hobbies to help also)
There are times you do not feel like having sex this may frustrate him, and guess what his recourse is.
Ever thought of watching together, or ask him what he likes and tell him what you like. Spice it up a bit, use some toys and props.
If you just climb on top, and do the same thing over and over, again it becomes boring, granted it feels good, but guys are visual, and like spice. Some women are self conscience of their body, and only do it under the sheets, or in the dark, nothing to see, ( remember guys are visual, they like to see where body parts go, and where their hands and your hands are going)
Surprise him, act out a porn scene with some toys, in front of him. drive him crazy. let him watch. If you have your period, help him, surprise him open his fly and reach in and play.
Simple rule in life, if it does not hurt you or him mentally or physically have all the fun you want
2006-08-03 04:29:02 · answer #2 · answered by Juggernaut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once he has been exposed to internet porn, most likely he won't be as interested in you, (unless you become super freak or something)
2006-08-02 10:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by real_sweetheart_76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him, he sounds like a moron. Alternatively while he is looking at porn you could do something to get his attention...use your imagination.
2006-08-02 10:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely i bear in mind being with a chum around age 8 or 9 as quickly as we discovered grimy magazines yet im undecided if he informed me the place to discover them or if one human beings discovered them by using accident yet then he confirmed me others that day in his uncles mattress room lol so a procedures as jacking off nicely that happened certainly ...
2016-12-10 20:18:10 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get used to it and start using the porn yourself
2006-08-02 10:14:53 · answer #6 · answered by powernewfie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do for him what the girls in the porn do.
2006-08-02 10:12:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Notify your local police department that he is a possible sex pervert and have nothing more to do with him for your own safety. If he bothers you turn him in to police as a stalker.
2006-08-02 10:11:35 · answer #8 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like both of you are WAY to young to be in a "relationship".
2006-08-02 10:12:14 · answer #9 · answered by janice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him the REAL PORN to Hook him!
2006-08-02 10:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋